Jaxom,
I take this as in the reality of Heaven you must forget your past life(ves).
I would not say you forget your past life, but why should your past life be relevant to you in heaven. God breathed life into the body of Adam, he became alive, so we can conclude that the force which produces life is pure unadulterated spirit, the same as Gods, but smaller, so you’re past, real life, is with God. When you go to heaven you go back to reality.
This is comforting, that all I know now is worthless, and people I love now can be cast into some hell, and I can easily shrug it off because I won't remember. No thank you.
I didn’t say it was worthless, most of it applies to the here and now and is worth something now, but in heaven what use is knowing how to change a starter motor.
In heaven, your prime concern will be glorifying and serving the Lord, because that is your entry qualification.
From a philosophical perspective, our only true friend is God, only He knows us perfectly, I’m not saying that we don’t form loving relationships with others, we do, and they are very real, but they only last a short time and then it all changes. Your parents are your parents as long as you or they are alive, after that, it is over.
I believe it is imperative we love one another, and see all living entities as brothers and sisters, not for feelings we get from it, but so we can learn more about love, develop our capacity to love so that in time we can learn to love God, the object of love and affection of Jesus Christ, and other great souls.
Love
Jan Ardena.