My point however was mainly that the pressure or injunction you are focusing on in this thread is handled with greater subtlety by some practitioners and 'experts'. These would not say that one should pressure oneself to do something that STILL seems morally repugnant. The time is not right. One can view this as compassionate, more subtle, more pernicious, more coherent, but at least it seems to indicate a God with some depth.
And then comes the inner Christian saying, "Yeah, take your time to figure things out, but know that you are risking eternal hell with every second you do not place full faith in Jesus."
I am not, however, making the case that the processes they would suggest: more prayer, contemplation, text study, dialogue or whatever would be effective or is a path I like for myself. Not at all. Nor that this deeper God is an appealing one - I don't know the specifics of the issue in this thread. Perhaps I wouldn't find the act morally repugnant, for example.
Personally, the morally repugnant act I have in mind here is -
Primarily:
1. instantly accepting Jesus as one's savior,
2. vouching that he existed as a historical person,
3. accepting that everyone who doesn't accept Jesus as their savior will burn in hell for all eternity,
4. declaring that it indeed is an act of love for God to let his children burn in hell for all eternity if they don't accept Jesus as their savior,
5. instantly believing that one is sure to go to heaven once having done 1-4.
Secondarily:
1. instantly declaring that this one lifetime of about 70 years is all we have in these bodies,
2. instantly declaring that there is no such thing as karma or rebirth as known in Buddhism and Hinduism,
3. instantly declaring that an action done by another person has been intended with precisely the intent one projects,
4. instantly declaring that an action done by another person has been intended to bring about precisely the result that one perceives.
Basically, you have to assume and declare omniscience. And I find doing so to be morally repugnant.
Which is why many Christians, for example, find ways of denying any authoritative choice on their own part. The Bible said it.
But how did you know that you should trust the Bible, where did you get this amazing ability to intuit that this text is the right one?
God's grace Or something else. But what is evaded is the hubris involved. I am not saying hubris is necessarily bad, I actually think it is very hard to avoid. We will make choices. We will live as if this is true or that is true. Hubris. But to not acknowledge it as such, that is sneaky.
A part of me thinks that Christian justifications like the one's you list above are actually the result of choice-supportive bias or hindsight bias, and not a description or explanation of what actually went on.
But how can I know for sure? I would like to know, of course, because I wish to avoid burning in hell for all eternity, and when Christians give me instruction on how to do that, I would like to follow that instruction. Yet it is an instruction that is impossible to act on deliberately, or it is an instruction that I find morally repugnant.