I'm actually pro-choice, but I recognize that there is some validity to the pro-choice that can't just be dismissed. It's a 99% but not quite 100% completely settled issue for me.
And I am personally pro-life, but would never ever assume that my personal beliefs should apply to other women's bodies. I also recognise that this is a decision that should be left to the individual woman for herself and her body. Would I have an abortion? No. If my life were at extreme risk, then I should be free to make that decision for myself. In other words, it is not up to others to determine what I do with the contents of my uterus.
Do I see validity in the pro-life argument? No. The reason I do not, even though I am personally pro-life, is that they are determined to control the bodies of women and take that decision away from them. As a woman who has been pregnant and had one problematic pregnancy and was advised to terminate, but chose to persist and was supported for my choice, that should be my choice and no-one else's.
The pro-life brigade demand that what they say about women's bodies goes. Women are being denied the right to choose for themselves and their bodies.
And I absolutely object to having people refer to my body as a host and removing my rights as a result of it. It should always be a personal and private matter that should remain between the woman and her doctor, not one where the State gets to sanction what women do with their bodies.
I think that, more level-headedly, the argument is that a woman's right to her own body does not supercede the right of a living (but unborn) person to continue to live.
The pro-life movement seeks to remove any right to the woman's body. Even when she is brain dead, they seek to continue to use her body as a "host", despite the wishes of her next of kin and what would have been her wishes. It is still her body and thus, her right and her choice. To demand that a potential for life that exists inside her body somehow or other has equal rights to her is the extremes that I find troubling and offensive. What we see from the pro-life movement is that that potential for life has more right to life than she does.
And it is putting the lives of women at risk. Women
who are miscarrying are being denied treatment because there is still a foetal heartbeat and we have seen one woman die in Ireland as a result of pro-life laws, and women in the US, for example,
being allowed to go septic because of a miscarriage, with doctors in some hospitals refusing to treat them and do a D & C or induce labor, because there is a foetal heartbeat. Why? Because the so called life she is miscarrying has equal and/or more right to life to her.
The notion of referring to women as hosts, is in a way, objectifying her as an incubator. It is deeply offensive and controlling.
Most importantly, it has dangerous consequences and it is only a matter of time before more women die.