On both sides:
On both sides of a planet like Venus which is covered in CO2 gas and has a super rotating prograde wind.
On both sides the photons striking and adding energy and momentum to the CO2 will have the same frequency, momentum and energy in the frame of the CO2 molecule, for that is the physical fact that only a photon of that frequency will vibrate the CO2.
(The only reason they are the same WRT the CO2 is that one is blueshifted and the other redshifted. But we will cover this later.)
On the side that moves toward the Sun:
A low energy photon leaving the Sun is blueshifted WRT the CO2.
So during the interaction some of the energy and momentum comes from the motion of the CO2. The CO2 slows on photon absorption due to conservation of momentum.
On the side that moves away from the Sun:
A higher energy photon leaving the Sun is redshifted WRT the CO2.
So during the interaction all of the energy and momentum comes from the photon and not the CO2. The CO2 speeds up on photon absorption due to conservation of momentum.
So on the balance it looks quite even, but it isn't in fact for in the frame of the planet it is the high energy photons adding their momentum and energy to the "away side", and only low energy photons on the "towards side".
Therefore I would propose that there is a net prograde acceleration of the atmosphere due to the energy and momentum imbalance.
It is imbalanced because the blueshifted side borrows momentum from the molecule whereas on the redshifted side this momentum is gifted to the molecule (for want of better terminology).
Please let me know if there is a problem in the logic of this.
So here I have conceded to a change, contrary to what I said in the OP, I now agree that molecules and photons do not require a common direction for absorption to occur. But due to the different motion induced Doppler effects the planet still has more kinetic energy and momentum added to one side than the other.