No, I mean that the one who has the more worked-out personal belief system or adherence to a religious tradition also gets the upper hand in the relationship.
The lesser person is then effectively pushed out of the relationship, or remains in it as a mere puppet.
The attraction for both parties change. What was before, is now no more.
At this junction decisions have to be made.
Two physically beautifull people may fall in love, all of a sudden ones beauty may be compramised due to illness, or accident. At that point, a reality of the relationship becomes tested. On what basis did they love each other?
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