It doesn't malign free will.
It makes for a cruel outlook.
The one life-time conception would have us conclude, for example,
that it is alright, just, good that infants are abused,
Wrong. A one lifetime conception would not make any comments about the justness or righteousness of suffering. It just means that there's no greater purpose for it, that it serves no greater good. That there is no redemption.
Yeah, that's kind of shitty. But it is what it is.
or that life in this Universe is simply a dog-eat-dog life and that we must be at peace with that.
Wrong again. Who says we have to be at peace with it? Life isn't fair, and you don't have to like that fact. You don't have to live with it, either. One could theoretically kill themselves at the thought of it. There's no rules, wynn. That's what you need to understand.
I don't know how to come to the point of being at peace with either.
So you're not looking for truth, then, just comfort. At least you're admitting it now.