That's not even close to the American philosophy. I don't understand how your post "piggybacks" mine when you're essentially saying the opposite of what I'm saying.
If the philosophy of America was simply to appeal to the majority, then there's a strong likelihood the slaves never would have been freed. And even if that had happened by some other means, many abolitionists were for the deportation of blacks back to Africa.
The idea that homosexuals shouldn't be "catered to" by the recognition of their right to be married is one steeped in bigotry and ignorance. Gay marriage rights is not a "special privilege," it's the long-overdue recognition of homosexuals as equal citizens.
I'm seriously sick of people who don't know the first fucking thing about America trying to tell me what America's "all about." It's nauseating.
I pointed out your hypocrisy which were separated by no more than a period. The point is, gays have rejected civil union citing it to be unequal despite having all the legal implications of marriage. Which is essentially them telling the rest of America they HAVE to be accepted as normal, well...America disagrees, they're not normal. So can we force America to change their opinion? No! The only thing owed to Gays is no additional hardship incurred at the expense of federal discrimination...not identical treatment.