No it's very easy. Just learn about photoreceptors. The action potential will not fire unless the stimulus is above threshold. One photon by itself will not trigger the action hillock. It takes a bulk of them, an actual wave, to cross threshold. Beyond that the pumping action of the wave must be sustained, or there is no visual perception. You can test this by pulse-modulating a light source. When the pulse becomes too narrow, you will no longer detect the light. The screen you are looking at does this. You only think the solid color of the text is not oscillating. It is. You just can't see it because it's designed to oscillate faster than the rate of visual integration. That rate, by the way, is anything faster than about 20 Hz. (It varies slightly from person to person.) (Or if your text is black the same rule applies to the background color, which you think is not flashing.)
From, http://math.ucr.edu/home/baez/physics/Quantum/see_a_photon.html
The human eye is very sensitive but can we see a single photon? The answer is that the sensors in the retina can respond to a single photon. However, neural filters only allow a signal to pass to the brain to trigger a conscious response when at least about five to nine arrive within less than 100 ms.
Which suggests that individual rods can detect single photons, but also that you are correct in that the act of perception requires more than a single photon.
However, the FAQ still explains the eye's ability to detect light as occurring via individual photons, rather than a wave... It just takes a minimum number of individual detected photons to reach the threshold of perception.
We don't see the wave character of light. That is something that we interpret from a series of unique interactions between a photon detector and the light it detects. Be that your eye or a CCD of some sort. Light interacts with matter in discrete quantifiable bits/quanta.., we call photons.
However, for dav57, your position is completely without any scientific merit. You would have us all believe that we are no more than an ostrige, for whom the world does not exist whilst we cannot see it. From the rabbit hole, to a head buried in the sand! Where will you try to take us next?