So in answer to “What makes anything ethical, moral or just” I would have to say getting past survival mode, because in survival mode anything goes and ethical, moral and just don't even enter the picture.
Meh, I dunno if I'd totally agree with that...
Have to think really hard about it, but I'm inclined to give the snap answer "Survival at what cost?"
In the case I gave with a thief, he (maybe she) is violating a cultural norm I endorse and the thief is aware of: namely, you don't invade someone's territory and take their stuff.
There is also a cultural norm in my region of dealing with home invaders with lethal force-such that we've recently passed the "castle doctrine" into state law...not true in every state, some states will charge you if you could have fled and did not.
Here you can kill someone breaking into your house and no charges get filed; it's your residence, you are allowed to use lethal force to defend it.
But that's not someone trying to win my help, that's someone trying to steal from me. Taking my needed resources, probably for nothing but amusement. Placing their want over my need.
I don't consider a person who would do that of much value.
If, say, I had one bag of rice and there were five other people who weren't trying to take it from me...but begging me for food...it would be very difficult to not cook us all up a big pot of rice.
And would I kill someone for
their bag of rice? no. I'd end up starving first, while looking for alternatives to doing that.
(Although I do not buy into the fiction that a corporation is a person...so I might be willing to shoplift a corporate chain-store in desperate circumstances...but only desperate circumstances. )
I place value on respect for property, and for not violating a person's territory. I also value co-operation and mutual aid.
Such that they are incorporated into my self-definition...and to violate them would destroy my self esteem and sense of self so much that I'd most likely choose to die rather than break my own moral code.
Hmm.
And I thought this thread was going to blow chunks...