Apart from your false generalization that I was speaking of all theists -
If you read my post you're replying to, I am speaking for myself:
Well, you were speaking of all theists, so you might as well drop the act. As for "if you read the posts," I turn the comment back around on you and ask that you please just answer the questions posed to you. Instead of nitpicking one thing that allows you to completely avoid the questions, actually have some integrity and answer the questions.
I imagine it is an experience that you, too, have had with theists: Have you ever felt that any theist who was preaching to you, actually put themselves in your shoes and tried to see things from your perspective? Was there ever such a theist?
Perhaps there are such theists - I have not met any, and, more importantly, a good case can be made that it would be against their very effort to proselytize to actually place themselves in the shoes of the skeptic person they are preaching to. Because if those preaching theists would actually place themselves in the shoes of skeptics, that would be the end of preaching.
So, in other words, you do not believe there are any theists who are different in any fundamental way than the ones you're talking about. Yet you rail against me for saying you paint with a broad brush. Your post amounts to "I'm not saying they're all like that, but they must be if they want to call themselves theists. So...they're all like that."
And since I do have integrity, I'll answer your question: Yes, there ever was such a theist. There are plenty, actually. My mother believes in God, yet she fits your description of someone who is kind and fair. I think most theists are like this. Sure, there are some who are judgmental and rude, but empathy is part of being human, so there's really no way to avoid putting yourself in someone else's shoes. Some may fight that instinct, but it's usually there.
I wish you'd give some examples, but you won't, so what's the point in asking anymore? You're probably making it up anyway.
One important difference between you and me is that you seem to have a largely depersonalized approach to the topic of belief in God - as if belief in God would be the same kind of thing as believing there is, say, a chair in the next room. It's basically, a unilateral effort, a one-way relationship.
Whereas I point out also the personal, subjectifying nature of belief in God - I take issues of belief in God similarly as when two people getting to know eachother and having a relationship: both need to make an effort, both need to get involved - it's a bilateral effort.
A bilateral effort between whom? A person and God? You understand that what you're saying here then is that in order to believe in God, God must be real? Clearly, this is not how belief works. The real difference between you and me is that I don't try to compensate for my unbelief by cooking up these absurd theories. "A theist isn't a theist unless they devote their every action to faith," or "You can't believe in God without God speaking to you." Nonsense. And, I think, childish.
Note that some theists also take the unilateralist approach to belief in God, and I tend to clash with them too.
Yes, because that's the only safety net you have left. If you didn't, you'd be forced to consider a new perspective. GASP!