To theists:
How much do you care about those you preach to?
What are those people to you - potential converts, deluded idiots, guinea pigs on whom you practice your debate skills ...?
Well i confess to my shame that it varies a lot.
Looking back when i first meet a "seeker" i am earnestly wanting for them to come to the peace of knowing the Love of the truth, i look upon them with compassion/love and hope. But unfortunately i am often moved from this when the seeker choses to react with great harshness and mockery towards the message that i hold with love/admiration and offer with loving hope for the seeker.
It's not like i become indifferent after the first slap across the face (or more often kick in the nuts). I have more longsuffering then that. I will turn my cheek more than a few times especially if i get the feeling that the seekers initial response is them just blowing off steam built up within them by their bitter experiences with false religions. I know a lot of people have suffered from false religion, i was one of them.
Some people need to vent for a while on some anonymous "religious" figure, and a religious section of an Internet forum is probably the best place for them to do it. So often i need to give the same point worded in different ways later in the hope that after they have grown weary of venting they may, with a more calm approach, get the message.
But after a while if the feeling comes to me that the person is just a hate filled troll, who truly hates the Love of the Truth then my hope for them fades. I may still reply to their questions (for years even) but i do so out of hope for third parties that may be reading on and also need the question addressed and who may be more open to the Love of The Truth. Now i know i am just a human being and as such i fall down in longsuffering which is a important part of Love, true Love. And i agree with God that i have sinned in this failure. I give thanks to God for the Atonement of the Messiah Jesus that gives me forgiveness for this and many other things.
I know the longsuffering of God is far and away better than mine. I know that just because i go indifferent towards a person does not mean that God does. I am sure there will be people who i have been indifferent to who will be with God in eternity and i will be overjoyed when i see them.
All Praise The Ancient Of Days