bullshit. Thats all it is.
I mean personally, I see no attraction in a 14 year old whatsoever. However, we know absolutely nothing of the circumstances of this arrangement, these people, and cannot make a judgement.
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Our society wants to make laws to "protect us" against so many things... this is one of them. we're not allowed to do anything at all until our society says it's ok. Crap, crap, and more crap.
Many of us here would know that as 14 year olds, we knew so much and so little. Are we going to legisislate against what we think we know? Are we going to tell people that we know better than them? Are we going to legislate against them knowing anything at all? Are we going to tell people what is right and what is not? Enter 1984....
Fuck it. Fuck this. Her family approves, presumably she does, he does... and "they" fuck up any potential life they might have had.
This is not some pedophile fucking up someones life, this is a guy who decided he wanted to marry a girl who wanted him. And fuck anyone who decides that they know better than the participants.
Who is this "judge"? What credentials does he have? Does he know everything about this relationship? I mean fuck, if it turns out later that she doesnt want this guy, then fucking get a divorce, is there a problem? So the girl is 14. So fucking what, does that mean she doesn't know what she wants? And what is everyone who doesn't "approve" going to do if it turns out they stay together for life, not to mention him not being able to teach anymore? Say "sorry, we had no idea it was real we just thought we knew better than you"?
Fucking useless "we know better than you do's".