The Pie Swindler said:actually, thats what i meant when i asked it. Right on
Live a natural life and you will die a natural death. Live a supernatural life and you will die a supernatural death.
I believe in me,its that simple.The Pie Swindler said:Anyways, i wanted to make a thread where everyone could state exactly what they believed about life, where we came from, where we are going, if there is a God, your religious background and contrasting personal beliefs... whatever.
see thats exactly whats wrong with such religious beliefs,rules,it keeps you in bondage,slavery to some silly lifestyle thats imposible to follow.My girlfriend and i have been dating 3 years and are going to the same college this coming year, and have been through the kind of things that make a relationship stronger and more certain. Im pretty sure i want to marry her, and so we began having sex. And yet, if i end up marrying her one day, its still considered sin? What gives?
Heh! Takes me back to my childhood (oh so long ago) when my very Catholic parents sent me to Sunday School. The replies I received to my questions about the notion of creation usually went along the lines that I was disruptive, questioned too much, had been influenced by the devil, etc to the point where my parents were advised that I should be removed from Sunday School because I asked too many questions and that I in fact needed to be punished to curb my "ways". By the time I started my teen years, I had found the whole notion of God and religion itself to be dishonest and frankly false. Thankfully, my parents had always encouraged me to never stop questioning. For that I will be eternally grateful to them. I think they realised that I had turned away from my religious upbringing when I refused point blank to go to a private Catholic school because it simply was not for me. It pained and hurt my mother deeply that I no longer simply believed and for a while I tried to placate her by going with her to Church to make her happy, but even she realised that I was doing so not for my benefit but for hers and she stopped asking me. Sometimes I'll pick her up for Good Friday Mass or something, just so she knows that I still care about her beliefs and respect her traditions, but she knows that I do this to put a smile on her face. My parents no longer expect me to be religious. They know who I am and what I stand for and they are happy and proud with the way that I turned out. They never once asked me to change myself.The Pie Swindler said:Ill start with myself. I was raised in a traditional protestant home, but ive been the odd kid out. In sunday school id ask questions like "If God created the earth in 6 days, how do we have million year old fossils?". Since the people running the sunday school were as about as ignorant of this as i was, id get answers like "well God has his ways." you know, things like that. After taking a year of biology, i really began to question about God. I had never beleived in the 6 day crap really, and had always thought of the earth as really old and God being impartial to time ("progressive creationism"), but the evidence for evolution, especially in the fields of microbiology, is very trenchant. There are certainly some holes in the current theory, but overall it is probably the best interpretation of the world that we currently have.
Pie, you are an individual. You live your life as you see fit. You do what is right for you. Do not ever let any person or group persuade you to live your life their way or as they see fit. If you are happy with your girlfriend and you are happy with the decisions that you have made in regards to your relationship, then that is all that should matter to you.So, i still go to church and the like, but i really am not sure i agree with alot of the teachings. For example, sex before marriage... im the kind of person who only wants one partner for your life, not for religious reasons but because of emotional/personal reasons. So i ask if its ok to have sex with someone who you think you have a good chance of marrying, or even are engaged to. And yet its regarded as a sin. My girlfriend and i have been dating 3 years and are going to the same college this coming year, and have been through the kind of things that make a relationship stronger and more certain. Im pretty sure i want to marry her, and so we began having sex. And yet, if i end up marrying her one day, its still considered sin? What gives? So yeah, im not really a former Christian yet, but more of a person who wants the truth about things, whether it changes what i believe is irrelevant. If it does, then so be it, its for the better to know and weep than to live like a king and not know all.
The Pie Swindler said:Anyways, i wanted to make a thread where everyone could state exactly what they believed about life, where we came from, where we are going, if there is a God, your religious background and contrasting personal beliefs... whatever.
Dear Chatha:Medicine Woman said:Chatha: I am agnostic on any religion
M*W: Welcome to sciforums, Chatha. I appreciate your post. I believe you are on the right track -- just perservere and you will become enlightened.
Sleeper said:Kids live with me.
And that'd be a bad thing how?enton said:Be careful or you will become atheist.
Dilbert said:Is your name Michael Jackson?
It`s your conclusion. Explain.Hapsburg said:And that'd be a bad thing how?