Sometimes "concepts" can in time be thought of as realities. I see this the case with space/time.
I still see the Einstein quote as supporting the reality space/time, if they have no separate existence from matter.
Yes, that's true. Separate from both time and space spacetime is its own indispensable concept.
I believe my explanation of spacetime may be the simplest, but for this reason a minority opinion of it. My concepts of reality in general are that everything in it can be simply explained. Of course my explanations may be simple and understandable but only some would agree with them
As to reality, I agree with the philosophers when they say that there is no absolute reality. Everything is organized and viewed from different perspectives of it.
As to spacetime, below is the simplest explanation of it IMO: Spacetime:
To explain the location of points in space we use several present methods of doing so. The two best known are the Cartesian coordinate system, which explains locations according to analytic geometry using the X,Y,Z coordinate system. And the other system is a telescopic coordinate system using an X and Y arc-angle system with a Z depth coordinate. Both systems rely on a point of origin in space from which to make measurement. There are usually two objects in space needed. Sometimes two stars in our galaxy, or in the distant universe maybe two quasars. One often defines the point of origin and the other the X or Y axis. Using either system we can define any point in space using these three coordinates, But how about next year or in the next ten years? Can we rely on the same coordinates? After all the stars and quasars are moving relative to each other as well as the background of stars in general and the distant background of galaxies. For this reason we must include the coordinate of time into our equations. We can make predictions of the relative motions of stars over time and predictions of motions of quasars over time, as well as predictions of the objects we are observing. If we put all these predictions into equations vector quantities and include time, we might be able to consider a point in space and time years from now as being close to the same position as it was ten years earlier. To do this we introduce the simple concept of spacetime, the location in space at a selected point in time, such as a time in the past, present, or future. This system of measurement is called Minkowsky spacetime.
To me this concept of spacetime is a simple concept like both the concepts and definitions I provided of time and space separately, and again there is much disagreement concerning a consensus explanation of spacetime, as there are disagreements concerning definitions and explanations of either time and space separately. If you would ask me to explain something concerning physics, my opinion would often be that the simplest presently acceptable explanation of it is more likely to be correct.
Rutherford was my hero in this regard when he said: If you can't explain your physics to a barmaid it's probably not very good physics. "If you can't explain your physics to a bartender it's probably no damn good." "If you can't explain your research to the cleaning lady, it's not worth doing." and "if you can't explain your research in layman's terms, you probably don't understand it yourself."
Einstein had a funny related quote himself when he said:
"Make things as simple as possible, but not simpler." ... Dubbed 'Einstein's razor.