Do you have a citation for that, or do you take it on faith?How can pure maths/abstraction ever arrive at REALITY if it gets ever further away from it with every further abstract/math overlay interpretation? As Einstein himself bemoaned:
Einstein was amazingly good at mathematics. He developed the mathematics of GR especially for his own work. It insults Einstein to claim that he was confused by math. It insults us all that you present such ludicrous ideas.
You are not using "frame" correctly in any English sense of the word.And have you ever heard of that simple 'instrument' called a "Plumb-Bob"? It is used by Builders to check the 'verticality' of some arrangement in the gravity well of Earth. They then know that any brick laid atop another is in a different frame, one above the other. That 'frame' consideration' is not relevant if the brick is seen as one above another along an altitudinal radial already established as vertical using the simple Plumb Bob.