I don't know how anyone could find asians appealing. Even asians don't find themselves appealing. Notice how their anime is full of big round eyes and hair that isn't dark? And then there's China's obsession with aphrodesiacs because the men can't get it up around their women.
You absolutely don't know what you are talking about because you are not on the inside. I was just in a thread where they posted biracial japanese guys who didn't look japanese at all and none of them looked as good as the ones that weren't and I posted pics to prove it. But it all goes down to taste, some people prefer something else. If the eyes don't have some slant, most of us don't find it that attractive. They did a poll with the stars asking them what their ideal features on the opposite sex would be and it was not white features. Their are white women that live in asia and many of them also throw themselves at some of these stars and would be considered attractive but it doesn't mean they prefer them when they have thier own beautiful women. They even asked Heechul, and his ideal has always been a star he's admired and had a crush on who has the classic asian features.
The anime look has to do with different colors including purple, pink etc and it has more to do with fun. Asian cultures have always preferred bright colors more so than the west, it's been in our culture and we like contrast. They don't want to look exactly white, they want to redefine what it is to be asian, at least the younger generation.
As for penis size and erection, that's all bullshit and it's been proven. Asians are no more smaller than others. They are about average BUT the thing is they are able to remain firmer. Something of a detail that whites aren't privy to.
If we didn't find ours attractive, we wouldn't date eachother when we could easily have our pick of others.
You are way offtrack and eurocentric which is understandable. The guy or gal has to look asian to be personally attractive to me as most have to look white to be personally attractive to most whites. You are also not seeing from the point of view of others how whites appear unnatractive because they seem too pasty and albinish with cowlike features and bulk. It all depends on your point of view.