I suppose every one has their own opinions. Though Ive come to a conclusion:
Everybody will approach someone on looks. Its how genes work. But...... What Ive learned is that that person might not be the most stunningly beautiful person in the world (Beautiful but... You know what I mean!) but the more you get to know them, just even being around them, the more beautiful they look to you. Its really quite amazing. I know the feeling.... Unfortunatley I know the "You can Look, but don't have a chance" feeling too.
What can I say
Life's a Bitch, the ya die