"Marriage is a fine institution ... but who wants to live in an institution?"
Groucho Marx
Agreed, I think we are wasting too much time and money marrying and divorcing people. If people want to continue to marry because of religious reasons that is one thing. However it they are not religious, why marry?
And while we are at it, why is a wedding ceremony such a big deal for a lot of women...crying over dresses, etc. I think it has a lot to do with the Jones's. But most people are not the Jones and are not really very romantic in their private lives.
What I think people too often forget is that romance is a way of life. It is not an event. And it is a way of life too often lacking in our modern lives. We are in love with the notion of romance rather than romance itself.