The only way to give light some coordinates is to give emission and absorption events those coordinates, which is what you've done.
In actual experiments emission and absorption events do have actual coordinates. What's the problem?
That's because both frames see the same speed of light; the moving frame sees their own time and space as being the same shape (perpendicular--squares look square) as the frame at rest which sees the moving frame as a different shape (squares look like they are "squeezed" into diamond shapes), both frames 'project' their coordinate systems onto v = c. The curved lines are between the t,t' and d,d' lines in your diagram.
As long as you are not referring to some measurements everyone is free to imagine their own version of what a frame sees or not. Without measurements theories are meaningless.