Oh I agree! Now that I have been visiting for the last two weeks I am starting to believe that she can't implement ANY form of discipline correctly! We were in the car yesterday and Ryan told her to "shut up" for that she told Ryan he was not going to get hot cocoa, later at the coffee place she gave him hot cocoa!!! I asked why and she said because she did not want to be mean! She not just sparing the rod she sparing everything! Spoiling a child is not about give them to much its about giving in to the child when they don't deserve it. If a child does something you don't want them to do you must teach them otherwise! If you give in or let them escape punishment then your a failure as a parent! Sure love is not conditional but tough love isn't either!
Now as for spanking I still don't see what wrong with it, but I no long have evidence that its necessary, all that seems needed is unrelenting discipline, sure whacking a child on the butt or heel may be quicker and easier then tying them down or locking them in a closet as I recommend to Ryan's mother once, but for the love of god do something!!!
Now as for spanking I still don't see what wrong with it, but I no long have evidence that its necessary, all that seems needed is unrelenting discipline, sure whacking a child on the butt or heel may be quicker and easier then tying them down or locking them in a closet as I recommend to Ryan's mother once, but for the love of god do something!!!