Originally posted by Michael
Hi Jan
Please elaborate.
I'm truly interested in what you have to say. To me it seems quite self evident.
Parents may have six children, and all of them will, more than likely, grow up to be completely different personalities, despite what they have been taught by their parents.
There are lots of people here who have christian or catholic parents, but they have decided not to be catholic or christian. I could go on all night long, but i hope you get my drift.
However, most people don’t change their fundamental beliefs – that sort of change is not human nature.
If they don't change their fundamental beliefs in a society where there are little or no restraints providing one is inside the law, then that is their choice. They are happy to believe what they believe.
If it was human nature then there would be a viable possibility all American children will become Buddhist in a single generation. Though a possibility – it’s highly unlikely.
The term "Buddhist" is a word which describes a state of mind. If the children develop the state of mind, then they are Buddhist, whether they think so or not.
I can say with some amount of certainty that the children of Christian parents will be Christian
That does not mean they did not choose to be.
If you are telling me that each of these children have complete and equal choice in their religious beliefs then I would have to disagree.
That is only your opinion, you do not know for sure.
The sense being that children believe what they are taught to believe.
That is the role of the child, this is how they learn, but once they develop independance, if they develop independance, then they are free to choose for themselves. In my experience this has been the case, as with all my freinds whom i know well, nobody has been forced to believe something they don't agree with.
This is a different situation, I speak english because i was born in England where everybody speaks english, it is to my benifit to speak english. Language is nothing more than a tool, it is not personal.
A child is adopted from Korea and raised in America. He becomes a Christian.
But is he really a christian, or just labelled one?
If he really is a christian, then he must have wanted to be one, because nobody in their right mind would be a christian if they didn't want to be. And those that are, don't stay christian for long, for being a christian is more than just saying "i am a christian". If they stay christian, despite not wanting to, then they have no idea what they are doing.
[quoteWhat I find is amazing is the resiliency of people to continue to accept as truth that they actually had a choice in their belief.