Hi Straw.
I myself had never wanted to see "U.F.O.'s so bad.
I had alot of other things on my mind that I wanted way more than that.However,I never saw beutiful naked women walking around my bedroom in some dellusion.
Also,they're was 2 of us that saw them,broad daylight,not that far away.Easily definable.If you want my full description go to "Have you seen U.F.O.'s" thread.
The tricky thing about getting all subjective is that it can easily go the other way as well.
Someone might see an alien space craft but not want to beleive it and see an airplane instead,or simply not see anything.
Because like you say the mind can be tricky in this way.
I believe simple denial is at the root of a lot of problems on this topic and alot of other important topics.
It's so easy to rationalize to yourself why you do what you do,or why you beleive what you beleive.
Espeacially if your own comfort is at stake.
I see it more and more now.It seems like alot more people just want people to beleive what they beleive.
Beleivers and skeptics alike.
As for skeptics saying that they're has not been enough proof for there to actually be such a thing as UFOs,what they are saying is that THEY have not seen enough evidence to believe in UFOs.
Thats fine.
That is the difference between the majority of posts with this subject.Most of the posts on UFOs are just generally sharing information on the subject,not pushing this information on anyone else,not trying to make anyone else change they're mind or make them "Believe".Just sharing info with those of like mind.
That goes for myself anyways.
However most skeptics come on with more of an agressive form of communication.Talking about the improbabilty,and unlikelyhood of such penomenon to exist,but then will always end up saying thatt here is that small possibility however small,and that they do believe in the existence of other life out there somewhere.
Espeacilly when they try and stay all logical about it.
Coming to a logical conclusion does not mean that it is ever over.
It is always open ended.
That they're is the possibilty that new evidence will come to light and there for change the verdict.
Conclusions can only be put on hold.
So if you are a logical,scientific skeptic,
then your statements of "I don't believe"
in the light of objectivity would be put"I do not believe ..yet."
You may act on your validations of non-beleif,but holding them as the end all and be all of conclusions is wrong.
Since you can not prove that they do not exist,you can only affirm that you yourself have not come across enough evidence to believe it yourself....yet.
Stating anything that even remotely cuts off any and all possibilty of alien existence is to admit your own prejudice for what ever personal reasons.
Again"Abscence of evidence,is not evidence of abscence".
That is a shame that because of a number of liars and perhaps true crackpots,that you label all who make statements on UFO's as the being the same.
Theyre are alot of good people out there that have experienced this weird phenomenon in many different ways,and to instantly convict them as guilty before proven innocent is unfortunately a habit that is easily formed.
Anyways this thread has gone on too long.
Peace Out