your saying you love god more than, your wife, kids, mum, dad, dog, cat, etc. I dont thing so!)
Beleiving in a creator usually neccesitates putting them first-it's natural in fact. Pardon me if this question was undirected towards me.
so here goes: oh and lets take it as read your dead and it's judgement day, or whatever. rjr6: what if you've been faithful to god, but you want to take your favourite thing with you,(this is not necessarily, a person, but can be an animal, or a thing) can you?
Faithful to what religion? Being faithful to Christianity would have you forsaking material possesions, or at least idoltry, which is basically what you are suggesting. This would make you unfaithful harbouring a desire to bring an object with you. The answer is no, you can't take it with you. ---But you are asking me to describe heaven as if I have been there, or have the travel brochure. Christian faith separates the two existences, so the material would not be in the afterlife. But God is in control. He makes all things possible.
On a side note. God created the universe, he created humans. You won't need or want anything from here there. Imagine the most ultimate object in the universe and it will appear as a crackerbox toy in the afterlife.
As for pets and the beasts of the world, will they be permitted in Heaven?
Risking an argument about viruses being in heaven and if animals have souls, yes.
or you dont want to go to the heaven,(you would rather live, lets say in pergatory or whatever, with you favourite thing) Can you refuse?
Yes you can. Though I am having trouble with the disencorporated soul holding an IPOD, looking for an outlet.
if you say no to the first question, and no you cant to the second then it's slavery.
because you personal choices are removed.
If your concern is being enslaved, analyze your question. An argument could be made that you are a slave to material things.