Hugh Hefner, the creator of Playboy magazine who is now worth $43 million, is 90 and has been married a few times to much younger women. I've never heard about any of them complaining.
Please those women were/are with him for money and fame.
Hugh Hefner, the creator of Playboy magazine who is now worth $43 million, is 90 and has been married a few times to much younger women. I've never heard about any of them complaining.
I can come in....because the door is open for me..
Should it be illegal for a 55 year old to marry a 20 year old?
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The typical scenario is a wealthy old man whose wife is dead (or perhaps divorced), who would like to have a new wife but not one of the few who are his age and just as set in their ways as he is.
People who are 35 years apart in age can nonethelessfind each other attractive and fall in love.
No it shouldnt be illegal but it will almost always be the older male thats 55 and the female 20. 99 to 100 percent. Why? Because we have a warped unbalanced society where men not only had their time with their own age group of women but also want to take another generations which frankly is selfish, disgusting and piggish to put it plainly and honestly.
I was recently talking to a 71 year old man who told me he always goes for women 40-50ish. If you are 70ish why the fuk are you better than a 70ish female? Aint so. Hmm, okay but notice the huge pink elephant and that is why the FUK do men think their ass is entitled to go for women not in their age group? This leaves women of their age group alone and out in the cold as many men seek younger women.
Society accepts this but its actually pretty atrocious and sad.
But people will do what they want to do.
But i have to laugh because naive people can pretend its love when they really dont have much in common when its just using either for money in the case of females or for an asswipe to hold onto their illusion of youth for the male which is pathetic.
And uh yeah, a 55 year old with a 20 year old is pretty disgusting but heck society accepts lots of disgusting shit because will cater to their base urges.
I find you rather narrow-minded and censorious, I must say. It's nothing about entitlement: the women in question can easily walk away, after all.
I think the idea is that you don't spend a lot of time talking.Mind you, speaking as a man in his early 60s I simply cannot imagine, personally, what the hell I would talk about, to a woman in her 20s.
I think the idea is that you don't spend a lot of time talking.
Haha please, what is wrong with people, im not censoring anything but people will get what they seek and just because you see two people together, it aint what it looks like. As in she may have a boyfriend using the old man for money etc. If people are deluded enough to believe that younger women are attracted to older men, then you should also believe a younger man wants older women. 'Attracted' is code for 'money and security' not genuine attraction or being in love. I have never in my life come upon a female gushing any passion about a significantly older male she may have been dealing with. And as for the men, they are very shallow type that go for much younger women. The women are usually just users.
And most men past their prime are not interested in starting another family so cut the crap about women and menopause. And most younger women do not want to have a family with a much older man though she may want to keep him in her life in some fashion for security/money. They just like the idea of a younger woman period even if he cant keep up with her or they dont have much in common. Its like a toy, accessory, novelty or object. Alright?
Whatever can you mean...I think a 20 year old would be bored silly of doing jig-saws.I think the idea is that you don't spend a lot of time talking.
Yerrs. But I can't see how you even get to know someone well enough to contemplate a game of hide-the-sausage, without a fair bit of talking.
I think you are taking my remarks about biology at the wrong level. I'm simply saying that biologically it would not be surprising if liaisons between older men and younger women take place, as they can have reproductive value for the species. Socially, I quite agree it can be problematic, as my further comments were aimed at illustrating.
But I have known several instances where an older man has gone on to start a second family with a younger wife, having got divorced. Some men actually love kids, you know.
I am sure you are quite wrong to dismiss all such liaisons as loveless and driven by mercenary or unworthy motives on one or both sides. That, it seems to me, is where you are censorious and narrow-minded.
No im not. My reasoning on this matter is sound taking into account majority and social issues. Just because there are exceptions doesnt make it more healthy or viable for society. As i stated, it leaves older women in their age group with less prospects for companionship or even disdain due to her age. How dare men when they are the same. Also, nature does not need them creating additional families as the earth is already overpopulated and there are plenty of people available within own age group to have children. Thet had their time to have a family. I think its atrocious when men drop women once they get older. Ive seen this too many times and these women are left to feel unwanted and unattractive. Its just selfishness.
Well I don't know what you suggest is done about all this. Seems to be just another "All Men Are Beasts" rant, to me. Anyway I've said my piece, so I'll probably just stop here, I think.
Pedophilia is actually quite different than a marriage between two consenting adults.Truthfully, this social issue or dynamic is really no different than a 9 year old girl marrying a 35 year old or older man in a third world country.
Pedophilia is actually quite different than a marriage between two consenting adults.
This is not a valid reason for denying two people a relationship. There is no "share and share alike" rule in relationships....it leaves older women in their age group with less prospects for companionship or even disdain due to her age
Not their problem.How dare men when they are the same.
This is rhetoric. You're entitled to your opinion of course, but it's not applicable to the hypothetical relationship under discussion.Also, nature does not need them creating additional families as the earth is already overpopulated and there are plenty of people having had or having children. They had their time to have a family.
No, it's a straw man.I think its atrocious when men drop women once they get older. Ive seen this too many times and these women are left to feel unwanted and unattractive. Its just selfishness.
You don't appear to have any reasoning, but more a sense of enraged personal affront. Unfortunately, for you, the emotional content of your posts demeans any sound argument that may be present.No im not. My reasoning on this matter is sound taking into account majority and social issues. .
You gave the very strong impression that there were no exceptions. Such absolute assertions are often associated with emotional and agenda driven arguments. Again, that just weakens your position.Just because there are exceptions doesnt make it more healthy or viable for society.
Arguably the main reason there are many older women who are alone is the disquieting habit of men to die several years earlier than their female counterparts. Do you wish to blame men for this selfish behaviour also?As i stated, it leaves older women in their age group with less prospects for companionship or even disdain due to her age.
Do you actually believe that? If childbirth were an option for men I suspect you would find very few takers.How dare men when they are the same.
Nature does "need" this. Intelligent, thoughtful human decision does not. As your own posts demonstrate, intelligent, thoughtful human decision is not a given.Also, nature does not need them creating additional families as the earth is already overpopulated and there are plenty of people having had or having children..
So you are focusing on the selfishness of the man? What about the selfishness of the young woman who is complicit in this act?I think its atrocious when men drop women once they get older. Ive seen this too many times and these women are left to feel unwanted and unattractive. Its just selfishness.
This is not a valid reason for denying two people a relationship. There is no "share and share alike" rule in relationships.
Not their problem.
This is rhetoric. You're entitled to your opinion of course, but it's not applicable to the hypothetical relationship under discussion.
No, it's a straw man.
And most men past their prime are not interested in starting another family so cut the crap about women and menopause. And most younger women do not want to have a family with a much older man though she may want to keep him in her life in some fashion for security/money. They just like the idea of a younger woman period even if he cant keep up with her or they dont have much in common. Its like a toy, accessory, novelty or object. Alright?
You don't appear to have any reasoning, but more a sense of enraged personal affront. Unfortunately, for you, the emotional content of your posts demeans any sound argument that may be present.
You gave the very strong impression that there were no exceptions. Such absolute assertions are often associated with emotional and agenda driven arguments. Again, that just weakens your position.
Arguably the main reason there are many older women who are alone is the disquieting habit of men to die several years earlier than their female counterparts. Do you wish to blame men for this selfish behaviour also?
Do you actually believe that? If childbirth were an option for men I suspect you would find very few takers.
Nature does "need" this. Intelligent, thoughtful human decision does not. As your own posts demonstrate, intelligent, thoughtful human decision is not a given.
So you are focusing on the selfishness of the man? What about the selfishness of the young woman who is complicit in this act?