A running discussion at present has focused on the precautions a woman should take in order to protect herself from rape and sexual harassment. These precautions arose initially in defense of sexual harassment, and became the focus of rape prevention in subsequent discussion.
To the other, though, is the proposition that men have an obligation to temper their conduct, and this notion seems somehow unpopular. Nonetheless, the following short paragraph from the University of California at Santa Cruz, entitled "UCSC Rape Prevention Education: How Men Can Help" has been presented, along with an inquiry about what is actually involved in fulfilling these suggestions:
Compared to an open-ended precaution theory that suggests there is always something more a woman can do to protect herself against rape or harassment, there is nothing here that seems particularly extreme. Nonetheless, we cannot pretend that these recommendations are actually simple tasks to fulfill. For instance, refusing to support sexist media? It is easy enough to not put down for the latest Girls Gone Wild, but what does that really mean? By talking with younger boys about these issues? Encouraging their development away from control and aggression? Who here pretends that a comfortable proposition? Do you just call the issue out of the blue sky? Wait and react when an occasion demands? Quite clearly, psychosocial conditioning is an extended commitment, a lifelong endeavor. Supporting males who challenge gender stereotypes? Can we expect people at large, or the challenging male himself to understand the fine distinction between breaking the mold and being annoying?
Given the prevalence of sexual discrimination and violence in our culture, it seems a generational proposition. To the other, though, if we never set out on the voyage, we shall never arrive anywhere.
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Notes:
University of California at Santa Cruz. "UCSC Rape Prevention Education: How Men Can Help". Viewed June 12, 2008. http://www2.ucsc.edu/rape-prevention/men.html
To the other, though, is the proposition that men have an obligation to temper their conduct, and this notion seems somehow unpopular. Nonetheless, the following short paragraph from the University of California at Santa Cruz, entitled "UCSC Rape Prevention Education: How Men Can Help" has been presented, along with an inquiry about what is actually involved in fulfilling these suggestions:
By becoming involved. By speaking up when you hear other males stereotype women or make sexist and/or homophobic jokes and put-downs. By not conforming to the "traditional" male role as aggressor. By supporting other males who are challenging gender stereotypes. By examining your own attitudes. By supporting women in their efforts to gain equality. By refusing to support sexist media. By educating yourself through the many workshops, readings, films and events organized on campus. By talking with younger boys about these issues and encouraging their development away from control and aggression.
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Compared to an open-ended precaution theory that suggests there is always something more a woman can do to protect herself against rape or harassment, there is nothing here that seems particularly extreme. Nonetheless, we cannot pretend that these recommendations are actually simple tasks to fulfill. For instance, refusing to support sexist media? It is easy enough to not put down for the latest Girls Gone Wild, but what does that really mean? By talking with younger boys about these issues? Encouraging their development away from control and aggression? Who here pretends that a comfortable proposition? Do you just call the issue out of the blue sky? Wait and react when an occasion demands? Quite clearly, psychosocial conditioning is an extended commitment, a lifelong endeavor. Supporting males who challenge gender stereotypes? Can we expect people at large, or the challenging male himself to understand the fine distinction between breaking the mold and being annoying?
Given the prevalence of sexual discrimination and violence in our culture, it seems a generational proposition. To the other, though, if we never set out on the voyage, we shall never arrive anywhere.
______________________
Notes:
University of California at Santa Cruz. "UCSC Rape Prevention Education: How Men Can Help". Viewed June 12, 2008. http://www2.ucsc.edu/rape-prevention/men.html