Unfortunately, most settle for what is "realistic", and thus, rob themselves of what is real. Society today has been for the most part blinded by this system, and most don't even have a clue how perverted and far from reality it really is. Then, there are a few who for a moment catch a glimpse of what is going on, but most of those realize that the cost for being true to themselves is too great, for their stomachs, and many fantasies and lust for vanity are more important than finding their true selves.
Strait and narrow is the way to heaven, and few there are that find it.