That was nearly 150 years ago! Things have changed since then a little: no more slavery, women given equal rights, fuck women in the military now!
What does that have to do with anything? In what way does that suggest they wouldn't send the military in against civilians?
"Sir, 150 armed men are rebelling in Georgia!"
"What? Where are the police and National Guard?"
"Wiped them out."
"Send in the army!"
"But sir! Women are in the military now!"
"Oh, well, then just forget it. Get their leader on the phone and so I can congratulate them on becoming The Independent Republic of Atlanta."