Bells said:It's better to be harsh and honest than to lie. If she can't handle that, then she needs to grow up. Her posts in here show that she has a lot of growing up to do.
that's just moral issues // that's not neededWere did you learn social tolerance?
always to enjoy oneself, have a good time together,What is your theory on dating?
Jenyar said:Avatar, have you any experience of living under anarchy, or are you just pulling that from under the armchair of democracy? Or maybe share a romanticized view of the gangs of new York.
whitewolf said:He scares me because the mere thought of his face makes me feel like I'm chopping my limbs off. The limit is Friday because this is the time my friend wants to see both of us, the first time I see him in a friendly company.
I thank all who contributed, don't know what I'd do without sense spoken to my eyes. He will be scared away.
whitewolf said:He scares me because the mere thought of his face makes me feel like I'm chopping my limbs off. The limit is Friday because this is the time my friend wants to see both of us, the first time I see him in a friendly company.
I thank all who contributed, don't know what I'd do without sense spoken to my eyes. He will be scared away.
She asked for an opinion and I gave it. Why does it bother you so much? She asked a hypothetical and then applied it to herself and her situation. I and the rest answered it and told her what we thought of it.robtex said:Well, aren't we just holy than thou? Someone throws out a hypothical for some advice and your best effort is to attack their character? Were did you learn social tolerance?
The theme is what is our theory on dating? Hmmm... lets see now. The thread is titled 'ridiculous dilemma'... her first post is this:What is your theory on dating? that is the theme..and the ethics of it.
Maybe you should check with her as to what the theme of this thread really is. Because from where I'm sitting, she's posted a hypothetical based on a dilemma she's facing. Not on the theory of dating.whitewolf said:The following is to be considered strictly as a moral issue.
Two years ago, I tired of chasing Happiness. I promised myself to remain single until I turn 20; after that, I vowed, I'd accept the first (hu)man that proposed affection. (Laugh, but it's sad.) I did remain single; circumstances assisted me. Now, I turned 20 and the usual issue came back. Some nights ago, I cried out to my pillow: "God, why didn't you make happiness for me?!" (Laugh.) Lo and behold, a man came along! He is good-looking, as many would say. His personal qualities are good, too. He has remembered me since the first and last time we saw each other years back and he is interested in me. He is about 30 years old, with wrinkles. He scares me. Besides that, I am secretly praying for affection from certain others.
Do not treat this as a relationship question. This dilemma deals strictly with personal values, will power, integrity, promises, loyalty to self. "What-if's" are foolish. I must reach a decision before this Friday evening. The situation is fully under my control. Discuss and share personal experiences.
This makes my eyes want to bleed. White, if you feel that way about this man, why in the hell are you even considering it? If he makes you feel that way in the first place, seeing him in friendly company won't change that, it will only mean that you won't have to be alone with him. Do you seriously want to spend time alone with a man that makes you feel like cutting your limbs off?whitewolf said:He scares me because the mere thought of his face makes me feel like I'm chopping my limbs off. The limit is Friday because this is the time my friend wants to see both of us, the first time I see him in a friendly company.
I thank all who contributed, don't know what I'd do without sense spoken to my eyes. He will be scared away.