you make a lot of ridiculous assumptions.
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as for atheism, it can be anything from a total lack of belief in any type of spirituality to those who leave it open-ended or still question. btw, don't fucking use other people's experiences to pigeonhole them into your bullshit narrow theories. that's unethical and disrespectful.
where you might have a point is where some athiests may be in denial if they are not open to any possibilities or any sense of the unknown. but even among them, some may actually be sincere. it just really depends. it's not all due to negative experiences though that can also compound the criticism.
I said:
"Namely, to many atheists, it probably seems like they have been pushed into atheism, or that atheism is so obvious that no choosing is necessary."
And then I gave my opinion about atheists who don't think their atheism is a matter of choice; I was not talking about all atheists.
Other than that, I don't understand why you are so hostile.