I said 'everyone' is a bigot if they hold to any sense of right or wrong as any society does
Hogwash. Bigotry is not the same thing as morals. Bigotry is the obstinate or intolerant adherence to prejudice, and in particular the hostility towards those who do not share said prejudices.
A person with a reasoned, tolerant adherence to their moral convictions is not a bigot.
'Unbeliever' is a subjective term...
Not on its own it isn't. You have to add a normative religious bigotry to the mix in order to get the "subjectivity." It's no problem to apply the term to, say, atheists. But to apply it to someone who is religious is exactly the same sort of "subjectivity" in which other races are "savages" and other political views are "treason." I.e., bigoted supremacism.
so the point of view (hence context) matters. I'm just as much an unbeliever to Christians as they are to me.
To bigoted Christian supremacists, you mean. And, yeah, they're just as much of dicks for their bigoted language as you are.
If you're not willing to understand the contextual perspective of the word-
It's exactly such an understanding that drives the objections. How many times are you going to beat this dead horse of an argumentative tactic, exactly?
I'm a kaffir if a Christian said it, and I have no problems with being labeled a unbeliever by a Christian. Because I happily profess that I do not hold the same beliefs as a Christian.
You should have a problem with it, because said Christian is not saying simply that you don't believe the same thing as him, but also that your beliefs are invalid. Mainstream Christians do not go around calling members of other religions "unbelievers." Only bigoted fundamentalists do that, and it is offensive and dangerous.
keep pointing the finger of bigotry without accepting your own bigotry (which I did)
What bigotry is there for me to accept, exactly? You haven't identified any.
And "accepting ones own bigotry" is precisely what is objectionable. The only excuse for bigotry is ignorance - good people are supposed to work at overcoming their bigotries when they encounter them. To "accept ones own bigotry" might as well be the definition of fundamentalism.
This is a pointless discussion.
Only because you persist in repeating yourself and pursuing evasive rhetorical tactics instead of aknowledging the points being made and responding to them substantively. So either man up and engage, or just stop. Repeated complaints about pointlessness are asinine.
Peace be unto you
ALL SANDNIGGERS MUST DIE