DeeCee said:
My first sexual experience was with a fifteen year old.
15 years old physically or was she a 20 year old with the mental capacity of a 15 year old?
How old would I have had to have been to be a pedo?
14? 16? 18? 20? 25? 60?
14 years old.. well you're a hero since you're dating an older woman and the 15 year old's friends would probably consider her a loser. As a 16 year old, society would consider you both cute. As an 18 year old dating a 15 year old, well, lets just say she'd be pissed off as you went out to bars drinking and she'd have to try and get in with a fake ID. Your friends might start to consider you a bit of a loser for dating a 15 year old when you're 18, but she and her friends would think it was cool to be dating a guy who can show a real licence at a bar to be allowed in and served a drink. As a 20 year old dating a 15 year old, one would think you were unable to find an adult to spend time with you. Plus society would view you as a paedophile at law. As a 25 year old you're definitely in the loser category unable to find a woman and you'd also be considered to be a weirdo and a freak. Your friends probably think you're insane or a freak for going out with someone so much younger than you and unable by law to go to the places you'd want to go to with your mates. Her parents would probably view you as the devil's spawn and her father would probably try to kill you each time you'd come to pick her up for a date and you'd be reminded that she has a curfew. As a 25 year old dating a 15 year old, you'd probably be arrested and ridiculed on the inside and the outside of the prison gates, not to mention that the inmates would probably beat the shit out of you for being a pervert. Not to mention that society would view you as a paedophile and you'd probably be prosecuted as such. Now as a 60 year old dating or having sex with a 15 year old... well.. You're not only a pervert but also a paedophile.
superluminal said:
The biological imperative knows nothing of age. When a female enters puberty, she is at her biologically most attractive and will, under natural conditions, attract males of any age like bees to a fresh, warm honey pot.
Apart from her boobs starting to grow, what other indication do you have that a young girl has entered puberty? Do you know that she's started her period? Her boobs may be getting a bit knobbly, but that doesn't mean that she's fully entered puberty as yet.
Women are not baboons. Our arses do not become red nor do we emit a particular scent to let males know that we're ready to mate. Males do not usually know when a girl enters puberty unless he's told, either that or he goes riffling through her garbage trying to find used pads and tampons. Growing boobs and the way she dresses have nothing to do with it, especially when you consider that they now make g-strings for 6 year olds.
Society imposes restrictions based largely on and derived from ancient moral codes designed, by men, to control the freedom of, and access to, females. Today, the rules are largely arbitrary. In any event, the biological imperative is always there.
Young girls, even though have just gone through puberty, are not always able to be in a position to enter into a sexual relationship, be in mentally or physically. While society has imposed these rules and regulations in regards to the age of consent, we should consider the consequences of the non-existence of such laws. For example, healthwise, young girls are not always able to physically deal with the results of a sexual relationship. While she may be fertile and can fall pregnant, she may not be able to safely deliver the child. In poor Sub-Saharan Africa, we're seeing young girls suffering from obstetric fistula, usually the result of long and protracted labour which result in the girl either losing the child as the child dies in the birth canal or they suffer tissue damage due to the pressure of the baby's head on the pelvis, which creates a hole between the vagina and the bladder or rectum, which then results in the girl suffering from a constant leakage of urine or feces. The girl is then ostracised by her family and community because she smells and there's nothing she can do about it. While modern medical care should prevent this from happening, girls with bodies not capable of giving birth are at risk. They may have gone through puberty and therefore be sexually attractive to grown men who seek the young to implant their seed, ensuring the betterment of their genes, but their bodies may not be able to carry or birth the child.
How about we just ignore the rules laid down by society. Lets look at you as an individual. Lets say you have a 12 year old daughter who's just gotten her period and she's growing boobs. Would you as her parent allow her to date a 30 year old male who finds her sexually appealing because she's now ripe? Think of it in that sense. Some parents and cultures do allow it, and others do not. It depends on the individual. I can tell you now, if the child I am now carrying turns out to be a girl and she's in her early teens and going through puberty and some 20 or 30 year old looks at her as though she's some sexual object because he thinks she looks hot and tries to approach her, I'd have his nuts in a jar and his head impaled on a stick on my front lawn as a warning to others. But then that's just me.