Gendanken,
Easy: WIC
Free food and toilet paper.
Are you doing this on purpose? Free food does not equal hand feeding. Toilet paper does not equal a nurse wiping your ass.
My grandmother went to her grave washing her own asshole, know why?
Someone else doing it was humiliating.
People who suffer traumatic and life changing accidents are prone to depression and surrender if not suicide. A healthy and vital man loses his legs and he is prone to give up. What's the point? His life is over.
Or how about the guy who got his face bitten off by a bear? Now that guy should really kill himself. But he doesn't.
The humiliation of having to live as an invalid is a terrible thing. You admit it in your above quote.
Now, it should be apparent that an amputee is not going to just get up and go to work the day after his amputation. He has to struggle from day one and spend months having his ass wipied before he can learn to do it himself. Then he has to instill in himself the will to continue to care for himself day after day despite the hardship which he must suffer.
I've seen you in terror over having a wisdom tooth pulled. Imagine having no legs.
I will not generalize on motive here- neither you nor anyone here knows why anyone of our disabled population chooses to live the lives they do.
Motive here is irrelevant.
I don't think it's entirely irrelevant, especially as you keep bringing it up but dismiss it when I attempt to. However, as per definition 2, it's how you're perceived in the eyes of others that makes you a hero.
The whole inspiration and example thing, you know?
What is revelant, however, is this habit of .......knighting....the weaker of two men for achieving the same goals demaned of both.
The two men have different obstacles which to overcome.
I'd say that the man who doesn't have to struggle to cross the room to get to the bathroom is the weaker of the two based solely on that single criteria. If all we have to go on with the two men is the information given in the opening post plus the fact that one man is paraplegic while the other is not, then I'd definitely have to say that the cripple is not the weaker man.
You didn't.
The dictionary did.
Oh, come on.
You're going to try to use the same old "you're a pseudo" argument on me for using the
dictionary for a definition? Should I emulate Dr. Johnson and make my own then? Would that satisfy you? Would I then be heroic?
Whitewolf,
Whether he does something by choice or not is irrelevant.
I disagree. I think choice is one of the most important things in a human's makeup. It is what elevates us. What allows us to transcend the animal.
We choose.
Sisyphus (however the fuck you spell it)
chose to push that stupid boulder up the hill every damned day. That's what made him a hero.
The actions of the man in the scenario are what you listed at first. It does not matter whether he is a cripple or not because it is his actions alone that matter.
Yes, but once you realize that the man's every move is a struggle, then the scenario takes on a whole new light. You have to re-examine every move he makes with the knowledge that none of these moves are trivial as they would be to a healthy man.
It is his actions that matter. And the context in which those actions are performed.
Is Beethoven more of a genius merely because he lost his ability to hear by the end of his life? No, Beethoven is a genius because you simply enjoy his music that much.
Actually, I would say that Beethoven's ability to finish his symphony while being absolutely stone deaf is an excellent indicator of his musical genius. How could it not? Only if the symphony were horrible. Which it's not.
YEA!! Those healthy, strong, willful men with small [marble] penises killed a lot of people! What on earth happened to the Hero's image in today's society....
Ok. The cripple's job is genocide. Does that make him a hero?