Yes, you and several others noted that such views as the one by the rabbi in the OP are held only by a statistically relatively small number of Jews.
Right.
But what is the representative view of Jews?
I'm not sure that question makes sense. To the extent that it does, I guess that the answer would be a set of views that all Jews would agree with, or something. If there is such a thing. We might approximate it by listing a set of views that a large majority of Jews would agree with.
The one held by the statistical majority of those who consider themselves "Jewish"?
If we are seeking "the representative view of Jews", then that would indeed seem to be the way to approach it.
Is the statistical majority truly the relevant instance in such things as religion?
Now you are veering off towards a very different question, namely what views are (or arguably should be) definitive of what
true Judaism should be, as opposed to descriptive of the views that Jews actually hold in real life.
I sense that I have poked into the hornet's nest with this OP.
I think that you received a hostile response because criticising Jews and Judaism has become politically incorrect in the West.
That's why I pointed out that the kind of reduce-your-opponent-to-a-caricature argument that you were being slapped around for, because you'd pointed it towards Judaism, is made every day here on Sciforums towards Christianity. We often see the most extreme expressions of radical Christian opinion being treated as if they were somehow illustrative of Christianity's fundamental essence and illustrative of what every Christian secretly believes.
My view is that if it's a mistake to make that kind of argument about Jews, then it's just as questionable when it's directed at Christians. (Or atheists, for that matter.)
But yes, it has always been my fear that theism is essentially about extreme exclusivism and elitism.
I think that theism is just about belief in a theistic-style "God". (By 'theistic-style', I mean the idea that there's just one of these 'God's', that the single 'God' is a "person" with a psychology much like our own, and so on.)
'Exclusivism and elitism' don't seem to be implied by that. But they might start to be if we start adding additional doctrinal assumptions and fleshing the whole thing out into a complete theology -- Special revelations, chosen people, final divine Kingdoms...
So while I don't think that 'exclusivisim and elitism' are necessarily implied by theism, generically speaking in and of itself, I do think that they might be suggested by some of the fundamental elements of Hebrew theological mythology, at least if they are pushed and interpreted in particular ways. That seems to be what this particular rabbi was doing.
Because I refuse to believe that the shit that so often goes on in the name of God is representative of God.
Yes. I don't believe in God, but if I did, I would want to hold a view of God that's worthy of its holy and divine object. So I'd be very concerned with perfecting my idea of God. And that in turn would mean that I'd be likely to be skeptical of and to reject as unworthy many of the traditional and historical expressions of theism.
Of course, doing that would push me out into the realm of individualistic spirituality that I find so congenial and that you resist so stoutly.
If I could, I would start a civil initiative "Citizens against abuse in the name of God." With Thou shalt not take the name of the Lord in vain as the motto.
People should not simply be tolerated saying and doing all kinds of things in the name of God.
Doing something in the name of God should mean something, and it should be wholesome.
People don't listen to me and I have no illusions about my ability to change anyone's mind. So all I can do is chart my own course in these matters. But yeah, I tend to agree with you.
There's a woman, an elderly Catholic, who posts on another discussion board that I used to frequent a couple of years ago. Many of her posts seemed rather spiritual and heart-felt. She was very big on 'open your heart' rhetoric.
But she also loved to preach hellfire and damnation, repeatedly and lovingly posting various Catholic saints' sickeningly graphic and detailed visions of the supposed tortures of hell. She took passionate joy in posting about people having their skin boiled off for eternity, screaming and crying for mercy, as Jesus walked by, refusing to listen. Then she'd veer back to preaching 'God is love', as if nothing had happened.
I pointed out that she had succeeded in making God indistinguishable from Satan, which can't be a good thing. If God tortures people for eternity, refusing to even listen his victims cries, and if she derives an almost sexual joy in reading and posting graphic details of the savagery, then her brand of religiosity, for all its hypocritical talk of "love", knows nothing of what it speaks. Her brand of religiosity simply isn't a suitable destination for the human religious quest.
It's as simple as that. Sometimes we have to exercise our own spiritual discernment, and that had to be one of the easier occasions.