On faith

This one is 'wish' part..

People on either side can correct me..

when we wish for something.

As a theist deep down in my heart it gets linked to pray to God. Wishful thinking on certain matters is not an empty rhetoric for me, its much more than that.

How do atheist handle this?
I desire things (wish for them), but I don't direct that desire at a supernatural entity. Circumstances or my own actions may deliver it, but I don't think there is some entity choosing to deliver it based on whether I'm worthy of it, or to play some kind of sick game with my life like Job.
 
@DaveC426913,
You lost me, it's either evidence or it isn't.
It's evidence.

There's compelling evidence and there's sketchy evidence. Aliens on the Whitehouse lawn would become more compelling as days passed, more people are first-hand witnesses, and video fakery is ruled out.

There must be a threshold, even if it requires the skeptic to go to the Whitehouse and touch the critters.
 
It's important to know what these labels actually mean, and how the relate to us in this day and age.
It appears that the way they are used, has changed over time and I wanted to know why.
Everything seems to be centered around Gods existence, and less about God. While they may be the same to a person without God, they aren't the same, in any way. Obviously atheists aren't stupid people, so why can't they see that they are two different issues?
Being "with God" is theology. Believing God exists is theism. Believing God exists but I'm without God is still theism (example: Satanists).
 
That doesn't make sense. You've already stated that such a sighting would lend strong evidence to the existence of God. Now you're saying it would be subjective evidence?
The interpretation of evidence as compelling is subjective.

The evidence is strong in that it is difficult to refute.

One person sees a sighting as sufficiently compelling to treat it as real.
Another suspects video fakery and requires first-hand sampling to consider it compelling.
 
I was just wondering how do the atheists address or react to very commonly used terms like...

1. God bless you.
2. I pray for your...
3. Wish you a happy xxxxx..
4.....

I can't speak for all atheists, just for myself. (I might be rather atypical as far as atheists go.)

"1. God bless you." - This one goes back to ancient times, when the gods were imagined as ensuring good fortune. The early medieval Christians thought the same way about their god. So I'd take it as the speaker wishing good fortune on me with a centuries old traditional formula, and I'd take it as a sign of his/her good feelings towards me. My reply would probably be a smile and "thank you" and I'd be happy. In fact, I might even respond with "You too" or something like that, as an expression of my benevolent feelings towards the other person.

"2. I pray for your..." - This one depends on context.

If I had suffered a misfortune, such as a sick child, this one might be like #1. As Spidergoat says, it might amount to "I'm wishing really hard for you". Again, I'd be pleased that they care.

But occasionally there's a note of disapproval when evangelical Christians say this. They may have been trying to convert me to something and they start praying for me when they realize I have religious ideas of my own and I'm not just a hollow shell, waiting to be filled up with Christ. There's a hint that they think that I'm hopeless. The cycle starts with 'love-bombing', with strangers trying to get really personal with me about my deepest and most private feelings and fears, and ends with them trying to keep their children away from me. "I pray for your..." often seems to mark the break. It's like "You're dismissed." I interpret it as hostile and condescending and usually distance myself from people like this.

"3. Wish you a happy..." - I take this one as an expression of good feelings towards me, even if the speaker is referring to a specifically religious holiday or something. I acknowledge that it matters to them. "Merry Christmas" or "Have a happy Easter" are like that. I wouldn't be offended in any way if somebody said that.

Bottom line: I think that people have too many chips on their shoulders in this day and age. I try not to be that way myself. If somebody is trying to project positive feelings towards me in their own idiom, so to speak, I'm happy. It's the feeling that counts.
 
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If there are two groups, one believing in X and another not believing in X, then it is very natural for the non believer group to ask the reasons for this belief. The proof of positive can be sought in such cases...but things become complex when this 'X' is about faith.

I was just wondering how do the atheists address or react to very commonly used terms like...

1. God bless you.
2. I pray for your...
3. Wish you a happy xxxxx..
4.....

It is not that atheist move with a placard that I am atheist, so they may be encountering such utterances from others and they me be feeling the need to devise equivalent of such statements without invoking God.
1: Common saying. I take it with a thanks.
2: Depends. Personally, I wonder why anyone who believes god has a plan prays in the first place. I mean, he has his plan, why are you asking him to modify it. But I keep my thoughts to myself. If they are praying for my soul, I usually see it as condescending passive aggressive assholiness. I'll probably avoid them from now on.
3: Happy Hanukah, Merry Christmas, Cool Kwanza, Rockin' Ramadan - all are wishing me good. I take it as such.
 
when we wish for something.

As a theist deep down in my heart it gets linked to pray to God. Wishful thinking on certain matters is not an empty rhetoric for me

The 'empty rhetoric' thing is where the real issue lies. Were the words uttered as just kind of a conventional verbal formula, or did the person saying them really care? You can often tell if you know the person and the context.

How do atheist handle this?

How does a Christian handle a non-Christian wishing them good fortune, knowing that the wish might implicitly invoke religious beliefs that they don't share?
 
Wegs said...If one is a person of faith though, one believes that no one's life is ''without God.'' An atheist's life is just without a belief in God. A person of faith does not necessary mean a theist.
A theist is defined as a person who believes in the existence of God (modern definition), or simply God (original definition). How does it follow that a theist believes everyone is with God.
Because from the theists' perspective, per wegs, they are.
Whether the atheist knows, comprehends, believes or not.
I'll leave you to discuss accuracy of the point with wegs, though.
What is a person of faith? They have faith in something or someone? Why does that have to be a theist or religious person. Everyone is a person of faith.
This is a thread in th religion forum.
Apologies if I have made the erroneous assumption that we are discussing matters of religion.
Further, when someone uses th expression "person of faith" it is, in my experience, exclusively with regard regions faith.
Yes. We've established that, and I accept that is what it means in todays language.
You clearly don't as you are still debating this non-issue.
But there is no denying the fact that you are without God, and as such lack belief in God because.
If you are implying a cause and effect between the two then you have them back to front, as explained.
As you see it there is no evidence that confirms the existence of what is understood to be called God.
And therefore I lack belief in God, yes.
Maybe you don't like the idea of there being a God, why for you, the default meaning of atheist cannot be 'without God', and is 'one who lacks belief in the existence of God'.
The definition of atheist could be whatever it is defined to be, and if that label fit my position I would wear it.
I do not form my position around the label, as you seem to be implying.
But the modern meaning of the word is still backed by 'without God'. So you're reasoning is backed by the archaic definition of atheos. There's no getting away from that.
"Backed by"?
There is simply the etymology from the Ancient Greek.
Many words in usage today may be traced to ancient times but where the ancient roots have little bearing on modern definition.
Take Thursday, for example.
Yes, it is originally from "Thor" etc, but that has no bearing on modern usage,
Actually it can be defined as without God, because it is without God, and being without God, can be seen as the reason you lack belief in the existence of God. I take it that there's nothing wrong with what I said so far.
Yes, there is plenty wrong.
It is not that I lack belief in the existence of God because I am without God, but rather I am without God because I lack belief in the existence of God.
The lack of belief is the foundation, being without God a result.
As far as the definitions go, the backdrop is Theos (God).
No, it is "theis" - uncapitalised and not meaning God but god.
You are trying to hijack it to mean God.
What you are saying is that God is not the backdrop, because there is no evidence that such a thing exists. Am I correct?
No.
If Theos is merely Gods existence, and that existence was to be treated like all other existences, then your modern definition would be correct. But that is not the backdrop. It is God.
So in effect a whole new backdrop has been ushered in to give credibility to the modern definition.
Credibility?
It has nothing to do with credibility but everything to do with defining the position some people have.
Those people all lack the belief in the existence of God.
They are atheist because they lack that belief.
Whether you agree or not (and clearly you don't) is ultimately irrelevant.
Your position is one of affirming the consequent.
But if an atheist was asked why they don't believe in God, I'm sure the overwhelming reason would be due to lack of evidence. So how can you say it's not used as a reason for atheism?
You said "using existence as a reason" and here you're asking about using lack of evidence as a reason.
So I repeat: there is no "using existence as a reason".
Lack of evidence is oft cited as a reason.
It wouldn't matter whether you made excuses or not (not saying that you are), you would still be without God. So without God is the real meaning of atheism even though it is now defined differently.
Do you agree with that?
No.
The real definition is whatever the definition is at the time.
What you seem to be arguing is wholly with regard the original meaning.
Under the original meaning yes, I would be an atheist because I am without god(s).
People who believed in the existence of God but were unreligious would likely also be atheist under the original archaic meaning.
But original does not mean real.
The real definition today relates to belief in the existence of God.
I didn't say you are using it as a reason, I said that it could be reasonably argued that you are.
I have maintained all along that it is the reason why you are.
I know people get frustrated with your contradictory statements but... Seriously?
"I didn't say you are using it as a reason..."
"I have maintained all along that it is the reason why you are."
And no, it could not be reasonably argued that I am using it as a reason unless, of course, you use fallacious logic in your arguments.
To me that wouldn't be reasonable as you could arrive at any conclusion from any premises that way.
No I don't feel upset by this. Why would I?
You tell me as you're the one who is constantly complaining about it.
I also don't think it is a wrong question, because I understand where the question is coming from.
You don't see any evidence of God, therefore you can't believe in something for which there is no evidence. And yet there are people who believe in God and from your perspective, they don't seem to have any evidence of His existence. You don't get it. Am I right?
if you don't think it a wrong question then why do you complain about it so bitterly?
And here's where you are wrong. Given the scenario I just gave, how can your question be a wrong one?
You tell me.
You constantly say that it is, and yet here you are now saying that it is.
I struggle with your contradictions, Jan.
Only because the emphasis is on proving God exists.
No, the emphasis is on belief.
Issues of proof is up to each individual person to consider, atheist or otherwise, as they see fit.
The modern definition is based on the ancient defintion.
That the emphasis has changed from belief in God to belief in Gods mere existence, does not mean it has it's roots in the ancient meanings. If they have their roots in original meanings, then to get a proper understanding of the terms, one would have look at their original meanings.
For curiosity, sure, but you can't then decide that you prefer the ancient meaning and try to assert it over the modern meaning.
Yes, we all know where the word comes from.
We all know that the group covered by the term atheist in ancient times would be different than the group covered by the modern meaning.
So what?
This does not mean that people who identify as modern atheists did so by a route described by the ancient meaning.
Those who identify as atheists today simply lack belief in God's existence.
They mostly do so due to lack of evidence.
They are therefore without God - this is necessarily the result of the lack of belief, but it is not the cause.
Nothing has changed regarding God, since ancient times. God has suddenly become an issue of existence, thereby shedding the ''old'' view of God. So anything to do with God can not change, unless there is an attempt to do so.
I don't follow what you are getting at here.
Please can you elaborate?
So I take it this ''superior'' tag is going to stick.
For as long as your style comes across that way, yes.
Please show where I am being, or attempting to be superior.
Previously highlighted.
The accusation you made in your last response was flawed.
Which part in particular and how so?
Also, note again how you have simply said: "you're wrong".
 
I don't agree that there was ''prior to the time of the notion of a single God''.
This can easily be analysed by comprehension of what God is defined as.
Apologies, I should have said "prior to the time of the notion of a single god".
iPad autocorrect tries to capitalise it, and I missed the occurrence.
 
I was just wondering how do the atheists address or react to very commonly used terms like...

1. God bless you.
2. I pray for your...
3. Wish you a happy xxxxx..
4.....

It is not that atheist move with a placard that I am atheist, so they may be encountering such utterances from others and they me be feeling the need to devise equivalent of such statements without invoking God.
This question actually reminds me of when my father asked me, as the family were celebrating Easter, why as an atheist I celebrated with them when it is such an overtly religious festival. I'm not sure he could understand at the time that we are still people and able to take out of celebrations things other than those elements we might disagree with, such as sharing time with family, friends etc. Plus who am I to pass up on free booze!
So it is with these terms: we may not agree with the literal meanings but we are still capable of understanding and respecting the sentiment behind them,
 
I wrote that I can't speak for your beliefs. And now you're asking me to? Surely you're the authority on your own beliefs, Jan. you don't need me to speak for you.

I don't know what you mean by my ''brand of theism''.

We are talking about what theism and atheism are about, aren't we? Theism and atheism are about belief or non-belief in God.

Are you saying you just want to ignore the question of whether God exists, in order concentrate on some other aspect of God?

What is the point of focusing on Gods existence if you're a theist?
When talking to atheists, of course the question of Gods existence will arise, becaue for the atheist,
at that moment, God does not appear to exist. So we can't simply ignore it.

For the reason I already gave you: because God probably isn't real. Or, if you prefer: because they believe that God probably isn't real.

And how does one arrive at that conclusion?
Why wouldn't God probably be real? Because there is a lack of evidence (according to the atheist) that points to the existence of God.? What is that God, for which there is no evidence?
Please tell me the answer.

You have not established that there is God.

Why do I need to establish it. We are dealing with terms and definitions.
Because I can't see God, it does not therefore follow that God does not exist.
I think the truth of the matter is that you have not established that there is a God.

Perhaps you're confusing the idea of God with God himself. No atheist disputes that the idea of God exists. They say that God himself (probably) doesn't exist.

That can only be said from the platform of being without God.
Without God, one cannot find evidence of God. Every idea of evidence will yield the same result. This isn't God, nor is it evidence of God. Because being without God means you have no notion of God, or the notion you have is a concoction of what you think God should be.

You can say, theists are deluded because they have no evidence of Gods existence. But what value is that coming from a person who is without God. You have to admit, that you have no idea of what God is, and any evidence of God that you come upon, you run the risk of not realizing it as evidence of God.

Is that what you mean? Or are you trying to conjure God into existence by your own fiat? Saying there is God does not make it so.

God is already there. Didn't you hear.
Theos = God
Atheos = without God

You or I came into this world with that already in place.
I'm one one side, and you're on the other.
I'm doing as much conjuring as you are, if any conjuring is being done.

Similarly, there is no real progression in insisting that God "obviously" exists when that is the very matter that is the subject of debate.

Going off the two positions, theist and atheist, we're both correct. God IS, and the atheist is without God.
Do you think that could be possibily be the case, and we're simply acting out our positions?

Are you saying it's fine to believe in a God that doesn't exist? Are you saying it doesn't matter whether God exists or not?

You're the one that is suggesting that God doesn't exist. This is an easy one for you because you can accept existence purely in the terms that the human senses can percieve it. I don't think that God exists in the way trees exist, according to how we percieve them.
God exists more in the way that we percieve love to exist (unconditional love). So it does matter that God exists, or else we would be believing something exists, that doesn't actually exist. You may even feel that to be the case, but then as a person without God, it would be understandable.

You seem to be positing a position whereby one can believe in God (Theos) while simultaneously not believing in God's existence. Is that what you're saying? It sounds incoherent to me. Perhaps you should explain what you mean, because either I'm missing something or you're not making much sense.

It's quite simple.
If I believe in you, what is the point of believing in your existence.

Once again, you seem to be positing a position in which (some) people profess a belief in God, while simultaneously not believing that God exists. What does it mean to have that kind of belief, Jan? Is that your belief? To me it sounds incoherent.

And it sounds incoherent to me that people believe in existence. I mean what is that?

You can't know that God does not exist, but then you can't know that God exists, either. You can rationally claim that God probably doesn't exist, and there are lots of reasons for that.

Why?

You can't rationally claim that God exists, because you have no reason to. Do you agree?

No. The existence of complex information within nature is a perfectly good reason.

jan.
 
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Pardon me for jumping in on a post not directed at me.

A theist is defined as a person who believes in the existence of God (modern definition), or simply God (original definition).
You posit a person who believes in God but not in the existence of God. How can that be?

What is a person of faith? They have faith in something or someone? Why does that have to be a theist or religious person. Everyone is a person of faith.
To have faith in someone, is it necessary to believe that the someone exists, in your opinion?

Maybe you don't like the idea of there being a God...
And maybe you, Jan, do like the idea of there being a God, and that explains your belief in God. Is that right?

As far as the definitions go, the backdrop is Theos (God).
What you are saying is that God is not the backdrop, because there is no evidence that such a thing exists. Am I correct?
If Theos is merely Gods existence, and that existence was to be treated like all other existences, then your modern definition would be correct. But that is not the backdrop. It is God.
So in effect a whole new backdrop has been ushered in to give credibility to the modern definition.
Is this getting back to your usual pantheism schtick?

That is, you assert that the entire universe is, in fact, God, and so the fact that the universe exists and we exists means that God must exist, by definition. But you seldom come right and say that you think God and the universe are one and the same. Why is that? It's because that notion robs God of his personhood and makes him just ... nature. Theism just becomes a belief that the natural universe exists. And if that's the case, there's no meaningful distinction between atheism and theism any more.

You don't see any evidence of God, therefore you can't believe in something for which there is no evidence. And yet there are people who believe in God and from your perspective, they don't seem to have any evidence of His existence. You don't get it. Am I right?
I get it.

People who believe in god without any evidence aren't believing in God for rational reasons, but for other reasons. Like emotional reasons, and indoctrination, and cognitive dissonance and not thinking too hard about the basics of what justifies a belief.

The modern definition is based on the ancient defintion.
That the emphasis has changed from belief in God to belief in Gods mere existence, does not mean it has it's roots in the ancient meanings.
You continue to posit a person who believes in God but who does not believe that God exists. You really need to explain how that works.
 
I don't need to 'see' God appear to me to have faith. But, you probably view evidence for God in the same you view evidence for Big Foot...
Of course.
...you'd need to see God to believe in Him.
No. I'd need to see evidence. I've never seen France but I've seen evidence that France exists. I've never seen evidence that Narnia exists - or God.
Subjectivity is really nothing more than our decisions being made by gut feelings, and opinions.
No. Subjectivity can be evidence-based but it is only personal evidence. What you see is subjective unless the other people around you see the same thing. The vast number of different descriptions of God are evidence that the God experience is subjective.
 
Jan:

I don't know what you mean by my ''brand of theism''.
I mean your particular beliefs about God, as opposed to other theists' particular beliefs about God.

What is the point of focusing on Gods existence if you're a theist?
Don't you care whether what you believe in exists or not?

I understand that you may be scared to take a close look at the issue because it threatens to pull the rug out from under the whole edifice of your belief. But do you think you're being honest with yourself turning a blind eye to the question?

And how does one arrive at that conclusion?
Why wouldn't God probably be real?
Sorry. You've already said you're not interested in questions of evidence or lack of evidence, so any discussion with you concerning rational reasons to doubt God's existence is likely to be a waste of my time.

Because there is a lack of evidence (according to the atheist) that points to the existence of God.? What is that God, for which there is no evidence?
Please tell me the answer.
Don't you read all those "scriptures" you constantly refer to as authorities on God? Don't they set out what God is for you?

For the sake of argument, why don't we assume that God is what the scriptures describe? You shouldn't have too much complaint about that.

Why do I need to establish it. We are dealing with terms and definitions.
Firstly, you are trying to tell atheists how they ought to define themselves, in contradiction to how they actually define themselves. And actually, you're off base on how the vast majority of theists define themselves, too.

Secondly, you have repeatedly tried to import the debateable assumption that God exists into the discussion, so you have moved the discussion away from one that is merely about terms and definitions.

Without God, one cannot find evidence of God. Every idea of evidence will yield the same result. This isn't God, nor is it evidence of God. Because being without God means you have no notion of God, or the notion you have is a concoction of what you think God should be.
One wonders, then, how anybody ever comes to believe in God. How does it work for children, for example? Or do you think that everybody magically starts off "with God", and then some people make a deliberate choice to turn away from God? Children start off with no notion of God, so according to you no child can ever come to be a theist. And yet, strangely enough, lots of them do. Except, of course, the ones who believe that God exists yet don't believe in God, which you tell us is a meaningful possibility.

You can say, theists are deluded because they have no evidence of Gods existence. But what value is that coming from a person who is without God. You have to admit, that you have no idea of what God is, and any evidence of God that you come upon, you run the risk of not realizing it as evidence of God.
Can't I read your scriptures to get an idea of what God is? Or I am immune to those? How did that happen?

God is already there. Didn't you hear.
Theos = God
Atheos = without God
I see the word "God" there, but no God. Where's the God?

You or I came into this world with that already in place.
What? The word "God", or the God?

It's fine to tell us all what you personally believe, but please realise that your proclamations do nothing to convince a skeptic.

Going off the two positions, theist and atheist, we're both correct. God IS, and the atheist is without God.
"IS" is a statement about existence, from the verb "to be". When you say "God IS", you're making a statement about God's existence. You are not correct unless you can establish that your statement is true.

It's one thing to say "I believe that God IS", but when you make a blunt assertion that "God IS" you just sound arrogant - like other people should just accept your proclamation on the matter, without you having to make a case.

Do you think that could be possibily be the case, and we're simply acting out our positions?
What else could we do? Disingenuously pretend to beliefs we don't hold? Play devil's advocate?

You're the one that is suggesting that God doesn't exist. This is an easy one for you because you can accept existence purely in the terms that the human senses can percieve it. I don't think that God exists in the way trees exist, according to how we percieve them.
God exists more in the way that we percieve love to exist (unconditional love). So it does matter that God exists, or else we would be believing something exists, that doesn't actually exist. You may even feel that to be the case, but then as a person without God, it would be understandable.
Perceiving love is a function of human perception not a lot different from perceiving trees, when it comes down to it. Also, disinterested observers can often see objective signs that love exists in other people. Love has visible effects on the world. And God? What does God do that is separate from nature? Anything? And again, here's your cue to argue that God is nature, but then that makes God a non-person. Also, God is traditionally supposed to be supernatural - above nature.

It's quite simple.
If I believe in you, what is the point of believing in your existence.
Could you believe in me even if I didn't exist?

And it sounds incoherent to me that people believe in existence. I mean what is that?
Rather than get into another round of dueling definitions, how about some examples? Here's a short list of stuff:

The Statue of Liberty.
The Pleasure Gardens of Mars.
The number 17.
A fear of snakes.
A giant sausage long enough to reach from Earth to the Moon.

Now which one or more of these things, if any, is real? If none of them is real, then people are probably babbling incoherently when they talk about existence. If, on the other hand, one or more of them is real, then it might be reasonable to talk about existence after all. It could even be that we could invent rational criteria by which to judge whether or not something exists.

Does that help you at all?

No. The existence of complex information within nature is a perfectly good reason.
It sounds like you're almost talking about evidence there, Jan. But you and I both know that we don't need evidence to show that God exists. Right?
 
Nothing has changed regarding God, since ancient times. God has suddenly become an issue of existence, thereby shedding the ''old'' view of God. So anything to do with God can not change, unless there is an attempt to do so.

I don't follow what you are getting at here.
Please can you elaborate?

Why is the issue now related to existence, and lack of evidence of?
God, Theos, hasn't changed, and neither as without God A-theos.

How will you know God, should evidence come forward.
Without changing also, the definition of God?
Or are you going to maintain there are innumerable definitions of God?
If I asked you What is God, what would your answer be, and what evidence would support the belief in the existence of this God?

jan.
 
This one is 'wish' part..

People on either side can correct me..

when we wish for something.

As a theist deep down in my heart it gets linked to pray to God. Wishful thinking on certain matters is not an empty rhetoric for me, its much more than that.

How do atheist handle this?

I'm not sure of your question. How does an atheist handle what? The fact that when you wish me a Merry Christmas that it is linked to God in your heart. As I mentioned it's not a problem.

I don't care that you are religious. That is not a problem for me at all. I'm just not religious so it can be presumptuous for a theist to respond as if everyone else is in agreement. Most people (atheist and theist alike) get this.

It's no different with politics. Most people don't greet everyone with "Hello fellow Democrat!" or "If you aren't feeling well I'm sure our trust in the Democratic Party will help get you through this".

That's because we realize that not everyone is a Democrat or a Republican, we don't know their polities and therefore we don't presume to know these issues as they are personal.

Keep your religion personal and there is no issue. You don't have to keep it personal just as people are free to speak about politics but you may end up less popular than you thought you were. :)
 
Nothing has changed regarding God, since ancient times. God has suddenly become an issue of existence, thereby shedding the ''old'' view of God.
Nonsense. It changes with every culture that conceives of a god or gods. Existence wasn't an issue as long as theists held cultural hegemony. That is what has changed, religion no longer holds exclusive political power, people can question it and survive.
 
Of course.

No. I'd need to see evidence. I've never seen France but I've seen evidence that France exists. I've never seen evidence that Narnia exists - or God.

No. Subjectivity can be evidence-based but it is only personal evidence. What you see is subjective unless the other people around you see the same thing. The vast number of different descriptions of God are evidence that the God experience is subjective.
Agree, and that's okay with me. I don't feel the need to ''prove'' my beliefs so they are ''accepted'' and affirmed by everyone.
 
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