Pollux V,
To everything a time and place. When you are in school your prime job is get an education. Your folks foot the bills for everything, as they should. When you get up old enough to hold a job, pay the bills, and have your own household, then you make the rules for your household. That's the way it works.
The tough part is when you get close to that time. Your mind is developed but your maturity is not. As such you are still open to someone taking advantage of you until majority age. Hence parenting goes on a while longer. I guess I speak from the other side of the fence. I remember what it was like when I was your age. I chaffed at the authority held over me. I was told flat out. When I want to make the rules it is time to leave the nest. They go hand in hand with the responcibility to make your own way.
BTW, you will always be your folks son. They will always be proud of you. Do the best you can for them. They each in their own way try to bring you up right and do they best they can for you.