It seems to me that Christian women in Iraq are treated more equal by their husbands then Muslim women in Iraq
Can I see some evidence of this? I worked with a Christian Egyptian and he was the biggest male chauvinist it has ever been my misfortune to meet. He was quite offended at the idea of taking orders from a woman. I never had any such issues with the Saudis who worked under my direction.
What do you know about Christian Iraqis?
women can gain similar levels of equality in polytheistic societies
I don't entirely disagree with this, since I have seen that in most rigidly patriarchial communities mothers have a pretty high status. However, they are still not considered equals to any man. I would have to look at what you have said about Roman wives and Japanese women, because I don't trust your conclusions. Do you have any links?
Okay from wiki:
As a daughter, she should obey the code of pater familias which gave her father absolute power over her and all her affairs, just as it her brothers. Roman daughters were expected to be deferential towards their fathers and also remain loyal to their fathers throughout their lives, sometimes even differing with their husbands to do so[31]. By the third century AD, however, this code was no longer strictly enforced.[32]. However, displays of self-assertiveness or independence towards fathers were still disliked by Roman fathers.[33]
Another characteristic of a virtuous Roman daughter was chastity. They were expected to remain virgins until they married, and once married they were expected to stay faithful to their husbands. Chastity was so valued that virtuous women who had been violated were expected to take their own lives, such as the legendary maiden Lucretia who took her own life after confessing her rape to her father [34]. Overall, a good Roman daughter was expected to place her father and his wishes in the highest esteem and do his bidding unquestioningly.
The most important role a woman would play in Ancient Rome was the role of a wife and mother. Once married, a woman was said to pass under manus and relinquish her role as a daughter and be under direct control of her husband. Under manus, Roman women were expected to obey their husbands in almost all the aspects of their lives, though the custom fell out of favor by the first century BC.[35]. It also became common practice for Roman women to be able to own their own land, write their own wills by the fifth century BC, and appear in court as their own advocates[35] . Roman wives were expected to be perpetually pregnant, and honors were given to those who had at least three children which was considered to be a large number of children in Ancient Rome [36]. It was so important for women to produce children that Augustus passed a series of laws that were intended to raise the birthrate by outlawing the reception of inheritance to unmarried, divorced, widowed, and barren women. Women in Ancient Rome were not only valued for the number of children that they produced, but also for their part in raising children to become valuable Roman citizens. This duty was especially important during the period in which Rome was a Republic. Women were expected to bestow the values and education upon their sons to turn them into citizens that would run Rome with integrity. Thus to be able to rear her children to succeed in life, an exemplary Roman mother should be well educated herself. Wealthy Roman children were taught to read Greek as well as Latin from an early age [37]. Not only were Roman wives expected to raise their children to high moral standards but they were also expected to run the household for their husbands. A wealthy Roman matron would have slaves to manage as well as normal household duties. A virtuous wife’s life revolved around frugality, parsimony, and austerity[38] though in later years these values declined into decadence and luxury. One of the most important tasks for a woman to fulfill in the household was the spinning of wool to make clothes. This tradition was so important to Ancient Romans that wool was often used as a symbol of wifely duties and spinning wheels would adorn funerary epitaphs of honorable dead wives [39].
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