Again, when it comes to theism, this may be the case.
It may be, but unless you want to run round in circles, second guessing everything, you eventually have to take a position that you are comfortable with... do you hold that God is unknowable or not, do you hold that God exists or not. Noone can tell you these things with certainty. Only you can say what is comfortable for you.
You can always live in fear of making the wrong choice, but then you risk losing what might be your only chance at enjoying life.
Logic really won't help you in any way - either proving or disproving God.
All logic can do is help you identify which concepts of God, or which arguments people are making (either for or against) where the conclusions don't logically follow from the premises.
We don't know if they are biased or not, or if and how their bias matters.
We don't know most things.
That is why I would suggest one starts with what is rational, and see how comfortable that is for you. And from there drift into the irrational (although using the rationality that what is "more rational" is uncomfortable for you).
Because they are, at least nominally, making claims about God, and we as non-theists are turning to the theists for knowledge of God.
As such, we are in the lesser, subordinate position.
Some non-theists make equal/opposite claims. Are they to be considered the authority in the non-existence of God?
First I would ask how you confirm that they do indeed have knowledge - given that knowledge must be true, so for you to accept as knowledge what they have claimed as knowledge it must be somehow confirmed to you?
Then when you have confirmed that they do indeed have knowledge - then you can put them on whatever pedestal you wish.
Secondly, whatever position you want to hold someone in due to your perception of their knowledge, there still needs to be respect
from both sides to both sides.
You've seen enough times what happens if one asks questions that the theists do not find appropriate.
Even someone as sophisticated as Lightgigantic resorts to ad hominems.
In person, it is even worse, and it is the same, regardless how high a position the theist has in their religious/spiritual organization.
I can not provide excuses for people's inability to be respectful during discourse. To me it smacks of insecurity and frustration in their ability to adequately convey what to them might possibly seem obvious.
And when all they have to fall back on is a process that begs the question from the outset ("one must first believe in God, and then the process will help them believe in God" etc) hopefully this will raise some doubt as to the efficacy of their claims.
And I did say "If..."
Have you ever met any theist who doesn't think that?
Oh yes. The most sensible one, and the one I have greatest respect for, is the one who beats down all my arguments with "It is just a matter of faith." He knows he can say nothing to me (who is without such faith) and I know I can say nothing to him that will in any way dent that faith. He accepts that I probably have heard more arguments and more details about even his own religion than he has. He accepts that he has no evidence, he accepts that the Bible may have been purely written by Man, that God may not even exist. But he has faith.
One simply can not argue against that.
It is not, though, in and of itself, an argument for why anyone else should have that faith. And he also accepts that. He certainly doesn't try to use fallacious logic to convince me, and even knows when other theists use fallacious logic on him.
But I accept they are not too common.
The corollarium of being a non-theist who depends on theists to learn about God, is to blindly rely on theists.
Depending on someone should not give them a position for disrespect, though. If anything they have a duty of care for those that are dependent upon them, and should be more like a servant.
Such not being convinced might not spare me of eternal damnation.
I fear you are in a catch-22 from which you will struggle to escape. You seem to be in a cycle of doubt. You don't want to be wrong but don't know which is right, or even what the consequences of being right/wrong might be, or even how to trust what people tell you what the right answers might be.
I went with what was most comfortable for me.
Ask yourself what you are most comfortable with?
If the theistic position is true, then the theists are superior.
Considering them equals would imply we have already discovered or taken for granted that the theistic position is not true.
Maybe the positions are as you feel they should be, but between two people the discourse can only go as fast as the slower person. They therefore have the true power. The rest is surely just a matter of mutual respect, and in that I can not answer for others you have dealt with.
Because the non-theist is a non-theist ...
If I don't believe in the existence of cars does that mean I can't be hit by one?
I didn't say that logic shouldn't be used in communication with theists. I am saying that using logic makes an end to the communication with a theist.
If one wants to learn about God, then one must give up logic when talking to theists.
IF one wants to learn about an illogical God, or open themselves to being convinced by charlatans who use logical fallacies to make things sound true... sure.
Otherwise, speak to a theist who is willing to have discourse without using fallacious logic. If you can't find any on this site... :shrug:
Is your experience with theists that after you have implemented logic, this improved and strengthened your communication with them?
Depends on the person... some come back with clarification (additional premises) that might remove the fallacy, others realise they have taken a wrong turn in their own thinking but come back with some new insight as a result.
Others, assuming the fallacy was correctly spotted, are less open to having their arguments criticised and if they merely want a wall to preach against then there are more suitable people (chat-bots, for example).
But the theist can (and they do) plead special position given that they are theists, and that therefore, the onus is not on them.
As theists, they are privileged, God's chosen children, and we, as non-theists, have no power or rights against them.
Again, considering them equals would mean we already (presume to) know the truth about God. In which case, why talk to them at all?
They can plead special position all they want but it is the other person that has to grant it to them.
Are they privileged? Are they God's chosen children? And so you go back to the cyclical argument of "yes, because they say so, and they should know because they're God's chosen children" etc.
This holds well enough for ordinary matters, but not for theism.
It should hold well enough for all matters. I can't understand why you would allow a special place for theism?
If a market has been cornered that requires a "special logic" to get into, and the only reason we need to use this "special logic" is because those who have cornered the market say we do, then I would question whether one needs this market at all. And if they are tempting you with "eternal life" that only their market can give you, despite what all other markets suggest, but that you won't receive it until you die... well, it all boils down to faith. No "special logic". Just faith. You either have it, or you don't.
Or you just bought yourself a ticket to hell.
Perhaps. But I was born this way. No "choice" in the matter (although that's another issue!)
Hell isn't a destination I would favor.
Nor me. But everything in my body says that when I die it will be like before I was born. And that wasn't such a bad place.
Because you're not good enough to receive a personal revelation!
I am what God made me.