The women want equel rights, then by god let us give them equel rights. Stop making the effort of pleasing her. Stop doing all the shit you, only do because she is a woman. Stop paying for her drinks, you don´t pay for the men. Stop doing ALL the heavy lifting. Stop opening the door. Tell her THE THRUTH, like you would tell it to any other man. Im pro equel rights, but I find that most women are against it...
I don't know where you live but things are already that way in huge swaths of America. No woman I know lets me buy more than my share of the drinks. I suppose the exception is the heavy lifting. Which brings us to the point that many people misconstrue "equal" as meaning people have to be "the same." There are some fundamental differences between woman and men; the Venus-Mars thing is true.
Back in the 1960s when feminism first arose, both men and women figured that the only way for women to have equal rights was to behave like men. I knew a lot of women who became irresponsible, heavy drinkers, promiscuous, did their own heavy lifting, even rode motorcycles and built their own houses, in an attempt to be "equal." It turned out that they didn't want those exact things, and for them to behave exactly like us didn't make either of us happy. Nonetheless we can treat them with a good deal more respect than our fathers (your grandfathers) did.
Telling the truth is a very good start. Not the trivial bullshit stuff like "Do I look fat in this dress?" The important stuff like "Do you want to go to the opera next week?" And once you've said "Not really," be respectful of her and go anyway, and maybe she'll go to a NASCAR race with you.
Yeah, women always want equal rights, but then support inequitable social norms like "a guy can't hit a girl no matter how hard a girl hits a guy".
I don't know where you live, but around here (the D.C. region) a woman is just as likely to get hauled in for domestic violence as a man.
What Im saying is..... You know that tomboy you treated as just one of the guys. Why not treat all woman like that.
Why not treat people they way they want to be treated, regardless of their gender? Some of us like being around women who are more gracious and "feminine" because it feels civilized. I don't even hang out with men who like hunting and fishing and boxing (and NASCAR
) because I'm not interested in that stuff.
Sure they will oppose it at first, but like we had to get use to women in the office. They have to get use to men treating women like other men.
Hmm... How would you like it if women treated you in the stereotypical way they treat other women? You wouldn't last ten minutes!
That is difficult for women... because they are use to being pamperet
Again, I can't imagine what country you live in. In most of the USA that died out in the 1970s. These days it almost seems like most women can't even get their men to support their own children, much less "pamper" anybody!
Like men, women spend more time at their jobs than in any other single activity except (not always) sleeping. And the workplace is one place where they are absolutely not pampered. Having doors opened or being given flowers ain't worth shit when some incompetent asshole man is making 50% more money for doing a worse job than you are.
The only place where women are somewhat favored in the workplace is in government jobs, and we're not "pampering" them by guiding them into the soul-sucking experience of civil service: The Employer Of Last Resort.
