Daecon said:
If it is, then what does that say about people who deny the truth...?
That would most likely depend on
why and
how any particular person denies the truth.
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Ophiolite said:
That is simply wrong. At least within Western society the notion of the "little white lie" is commonplace.
I would add to that three important sectors of our society where deception is not only acceptable, but expected:
sales, juristics, politics.
I would also note that a certain degree of happiness is required for individuals to participate in a healthy society. Look at my beloved America, and what we've done to ourselves;
this isn't healthy.
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M.S. said:
Well, it always depends upon the situation. I think that telling of truth all the time is not right and sometimes even unwise. For example, there can be situations when there's somebody who seems to be unsympathetic as a person to you. However, he didn't make anything bad for you. Thus, telling him the truth that you don't like him will be just out of place.
Welcome to our humble bedlam.
I don't disagree with your general point, but I do think it only begs further questions. To wit, "If this is the case, what does that say about the state of people and the society?"
To wit, I'm engaged in a running, low-key dispute with certain members of my family that wouldn't disrupt anything except that they keep bringing it up. At some point, I ran out of routes for talking around certain aspects. And, yes, it hurts people's feelings to tell them they're wrong. They don't even want to hear why.
Thus it results that we can only have the discussion as long as we don't discuss the heart of the issue.
This, to me, does not seem a healthy situation for anyone involved. Yet, somehow this is the socially proper way? Okay, so what would that affirmation imply about social propriety?
Then again, there really isn't any
polite way to question another so fundamentally. And in my little microcosm, the way it works is that the offense against dignity is a one-way issue. And I can see the patterns in human relations all the way up the ladder to the macroscale. So the idea that simply telling someone they mistakenly asserted as fact something that isn't true will offend them. The larger dynamic seems really, really unhealthy.
So while I wouldn't dispute your point, it does seem to beg further question.