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Look, when i posted that thread yesterday on my depression, all i needed was a bit of support at that time.

Now i am being accused (BY BELL) in particular that i was causing some kind of hissy fit, and needed the mods as some security blanket.

This targetted response has sent me over the edge and i can't hack it anymore.

I've had problems here before, but i never knew so many people at once could be sooooo fuckin nasty; apart from redarmy and shorty who stuck up for me, saying their attitudes where terrible.

Well thanks Bell and GEND/DER FUCKIN BENDER - I'm off.
 
Reiku,


It's usually bad to turn to people for compassion and understanding.
Seek compassion and understanding only from those you really know and trust.
If those are not available, you're better off keeping things to yourself.
 
Reiku said:
Now i am being accused (BY BELL) in particular that i was causing some kind of hissy fit, and needed the mods as some security blanket.
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Oh good grief.

:rolleyes:

Lay off the booze and drugs and get some professional help. Turning to strangers, who don't know you, on an internet forum is not the way to go.
 
So you are now using your depression as a manipulation for more sympathy. Freud wouldn't be too impressed. By the way I have heard of Multiple Personality Disorder and Borderline Personality Disorder but I have never heard of 'Borderline split personality disorder'. What DSM are you working from sweetie? It looks as if you are making up your disorders as you go along and merging a few to boot. The term 'split personality' isn't a diagnostic term unless you are watching Joanne Woodward in The Three Faces of Eve and who can forget SYBIL, they now use terms like 'dissociative'.

When you take the long walk into the night don't forget a bag of cheerios.

Since when has mental illness become so chic people brag about it like a brand new Fendi bag?
 
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Oh good grief.

:rolleyes:

Lay off the booze and drugs and get some professional help. Turning to strangers, who don't know you, on an internet forum is not the way to go.
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Right - just as much sympathy and help as one would get from trying the same silly stunt with a bunch of strangers on a street corner. Try it: "Look at poor me! I'm so depressed! Won't you make me feel better?" And see what response you get.

Just before placing the OP on ignore (wouldn't have seen this except for the responses), I told him he was acting like a cry-baby at that time. He called that an insult - but now look at this. You be the judge now.
 
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Since when has mental illness become so chic people brag about it like a brand new Fendi bag?
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Yeah, I've noticed it too. Emo style. Goddamn pussies.
Besides having a damaged psyche doesn't mean you should not try to repair yourself.
And I bet he hasn't studied psychology, because one of the first things you get to know is that alcohol and drugs are no use of as a cure.
When you start taking drugs, for the most part it is for the reason that you don't become a threat to others, it's a last resort.
 
As i have just explained in a PM, you're all giving me choices:

1. Go seek professional help

2. Lay of the drink and drugs

3. Don't express my feelings on the net

When did you all suddenly become the gaurdian of me? Not only this, but i wouldn't have taken offense if it had been said in the right way - which it wasn't

In fact, you want to know something>? I can't speak to any of my friends about my depression. Its not that they don't care, but this is for two reasons.

1. I am not very good as self-psychoanalysis, therego i am useless when in a personal confrontation (the old proverbial psychologists patients chair) - this is why i found this place so unique, because AT LEAST I THOUGHT that by professing my difficulties at the time would have been good, because i you and i wouldn't have needed to go more personal than i had asked for. Unfortunetaly it did.

2. That my friends are not very good on the long run for listening to problems at the moment or mostly at anytime. My condition is vry diffiult to understand, and i am a complex character.

... So what is it gong to be...

1. More insults?

2. More ignorance?

2. More narrow and dogmatic conclusions of me and my life...?

Go right ahead. It hasn't seemed to stop you sofaryet, nor has Plasma or even James have corrected you... So what have you got to worry about?
 
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Yeah, I've noticed it too. Emo style. Goddamn pussies.
Besides having a damaged psyche doesn't mean you should not try to repair yourself.
And I bet he hasn't studied psychology, because one of the first things you get to know is that alcohol and drugs are no use of as a cure.
When you start taking drugs, for the most part it is for the reason that you don't become a threat to others, it's a last resort.
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'And I bet he hasn't studied psychology, because one of the first things you get to know is that alcohol and drugs are no use of as a cure.
When you start taking drugs, for the most part it is for the reason that you don't become a threat to others, it's a last resort.'

That is a terrible answer, for you also learn in psychology that it is next to impossible to analyse yourself.

Avatar... never mind...
 
Of course it is possible, you just have to be critical.
The doctor in the chair won't know more about you than you know, you just have to be able to analyze what you know.
If your condition prevents to do that, well, sucks for you, go to a doc then.

and nothing of that warrants you to use alcohol as a cure, it's just incredibly stupid.
 
Guess what. You're right for the first time. Nothing warrants alcohol, but here is something you have obviously let escape you. It is a common side affect that alcohol is inexrably touched on during such depressing times. Damn, i'm even having a drink now, and i've only returned because i have calmed down.

My doctor, for your information has given me psychotherapists, three of them to be exact. One of them was a Dr. Layton, and i used her name in an inspired story thread here. But what you commented on what just downright INCORRECT, because you said, ''Just because you have a damaged psyche, doesn't mean you shouldn't try to fix it...''

Who said it could be fixed? Semantic Pragmatic Disorder is perminant.
 
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Nothing in the psyche is permament, psyche is a process.
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I suspect Reiku wishes this to be true, but might be too afraid to consciously accept it.

Perhaps his doctors are telling him otherwise. There are some psychotherapists and psychologists who like to insist that this or that disorder is permanent.
Which can have a very negative effect on the person and make everything worse.

So Reiku, more or less subconsciously, refuses to seek help with the doctors. (So sending him to the doctor only ellicits more rebellion from him!)

Instead, he is turning to people who are not so absolutist in their predictions as his doctors are.
 
greenberg said:
I suspect Reiku wishes this to be true, but might be too afraid to consciously accept it.

Perhaps his doctors are telling him otherwise. There are some psychotherapists and psychologists who like to insist that this or that disorder is permanent.
Which can have a very negative effect on the person and make everything worse.

So Reiku, more or less subconsciously, refuses to seek help with the doctors. (So sending him to the doctor only ellicits more rebellion from him!)

Instead, he is turning to people who are not so absolutist in their predictions as his doctors are.
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Not quite... But have promoted in the past that i would have thought autism to be perfectly a mental condition, considering is is itself in whole totally mental. In short, i already know it isn't, but even shorter, i know from experience it really is.
 
S.A.M. said:
Autism is not psychological
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Well, reiku was talking about how depressed he is, not that he is autistic or something.
If he has a physiological problem with his brain, he should not drink any way.
 
If you want to do something online that has been shown to improve mood and attitude try some of these positive psychology self-tests (which also provide feedback):

http://www.authentichappiness.sas.upenn.edu/

If you have SPD have you tried other forms of self-expression that don't rely on language such as visual art or music? I don't know of any research on this but intuitively it would seem to be helpful.
 
Reiku said:
Wrong. Autism does not dissipate. It's not a fucking cold...!!!!!!
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If you have autism, it is currently totally incurable.
You can only treat some of the symptoms.
You say you don't want advice, sympathy, etc.
So live with it, and stop wingeing.
 
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