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I've noticed (no big surprise of course) that people are less likely to compromise with each other these days and that everything seems to be presented as black and white (binary).
I think it would be helpful if more people were able to consider a policy or problem from the other person's point of view. It would also be helpful to make sure that the problem is being put into proper perspective.
The third aspect that I've come to realize is that emotion and reality need to be considered and not just one or the other. I tend to think that the solution is "X" when cooler heads prevail but in a situation where the reality is there are no cooler heads then scenario "Y" needs to be considered as well, as much as it pains me.
So 1) most things aren't binary, 2) there are two sides to most "arguments" and we also often fail to put things into perspective and 3) reality is best but with large groups not everyone is logical and educated and sometimes it doesn't matter what "should" happen. It's important to predict what will probably happen.
I'll give some examples of why I think this way. Most things aren't binary. In economics there are Keynesians (larger role for the government), Austrian school (let the market handle things) and even the MMT (Modern Monetary Theory) people who more or less say that the government should just print money as needed, since they can.
People tend to identify with one school or the other but, to lesser degrees, they all apply sometimes. It's the same with Democrats and Republicans (they can both be right sometimes).
As far as perspective. (for example) we forget to put our (US) relative poverty into perspective when compared to poverty in most of the rest of the world. Poverty is actually the norm and not the exception and much global poverty is absolute poverty and not just the relative poverty that can be found in the US.
This same concept sometimes might be referred to as "first world problems". In other words, small problems that only a 1st world person would be able to have in the first place. Sometimes we need perspective to realize how minor some of our problems are.
The third point about reality vs ideal is the situation where you know that (for example) wealthier people aren't the problem that many think they are. They are used as a scapegoat for other issues. They are "selfish" or "greedy" when in fact they are focused on their self-interest just like all the rest of us.
However the "reality" might be that people are about to riot, attack the wealthy, even though these actions aren't based on logic the "reality" is that many people are upset. MAGA, in general, makes no sense. Little is based on fact but the "reality" is that a large portion of the population are upset and they keep electing people to "destroy" our current system. It makes no sense, it won't make anyone's life better, it's not even based on fact but we still have to realize that they are out there and we can't simply ignore them.
If the base of both parties was more moderate, like the far past, then the fringe could be (and were) ignored as in the past. Today they are the party and they are too large to ignore.
I'm not sure how we start to take our system of government back toward moderation now that Trump has shown us all of the weaknesses. We really don't have 3 co-equal branches at the moment to serve as checks and balances.
Any change can be stopped by the Supreme Court which appears to be corrupted and Congress has shown no sign of asserting its own powers.
I am sure the path has to include the things I've mentioned regarding forming an opinion, ie moderation, cooperation, perspective and taking the "reality" of the craziness into account. Ignoring it or pretending that wasn't the case isn't going to be particularly helpful, IMO.
I think it would be helpful if more people were able to consider a policy or problem from the other person's point of view. It would also be helpful to make sure that the problem is being put into proper perspective.
The third aspect that I've come to realize is that emotion and reality need to be considered and not just one or the other. I tend to think that the solution is "X" when cooler heads prevail but in a situation where the reality is there are no cooler heads then scenario "Y" needs to be considered as well, as much as it pains me.
So 1) most things aren't binary, 2) there are two sides to most "arguments" and we also often fail to put things into perspective and 3) reality is best but with large groups not everyone is logical and educated and sometimes it doesn't matter what "should" happen. It's important to predict what will probably happen.
I'll give some examples of why I think this way. Most things aren't binary. In economics there are Keynesians (larger role for the government), Austrian school (let the market handle things) and even the MMT (Modern Monetary Theory) people who more or less say that the government should just print money as needed, since they can.
People tend to identify with one school or the other but, to lesser degrees, they all apply sometimes. It's the same with Democrats and Republicans (they can both be right sometimes).
As far as perspective. (for example) we forget to put our (US) relative poverty into perspective when compared to poverty in most of the rest of the world. Poverty is actually the norm and not the exception and much global poverty is absolute poverty and not just the relative poverty that can be found in the US.
This same concept sometimes might be referred to as "first world problems". In other words, small problems that only a 1st world person would be able to have in the first place. Sometimes we need perspective to realize how minor some of our problems are.
The third point about reality vs ideal is the situation where you know that (for example) wealthier people aren't the problem that many think they are. They are used as a scapegoat for other issues. They are "selfish" or "greedy" when in fact they are focused on their self-interest just like all the rest of us.
However the "reality" might be that people are about to riot, attack the wealthy, even though these actions aren't based on logic the "reality" is that many people are upset. MAGA, in general, makes no sense. Little is based on fact but the "reality" is that a large portion of the population are upset and they keep electing people to "destroy" our current system. It makes no sense, it won't make anyone's life better, it's not even based on fact but we still have to realize that they are out there and we can't simply ignore them.
If the base of both parties was more moderate, like the far past, then the fringe could be (and were) ignored as in the past. Today they are the party and they are too large to ignore.
I'm not sure how we start to take our system of government back toward moderation now that Trump has shown us all of the weaknesses. We really don't have 3 co-equal branches at the moment to serve as checks and balances.
Any change can be stopped by the Supreme Court which appears to be corrupted and Congress has shown no sign of asserting its own powers.
I am sure the path has to include the things I've mentioned regarding forming an opinion, ie moderation, cooperation, perspective and taking the "reality" of the craziness into account. Ignoring it or pretending that wasn't the case isn't going to be particularly helpful, IMO.
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