I have a feeling youre being sarcastic. but i am serious. everything you just said i totally believe. Both my parents were DIRT POOR growning up (my father's side actually had a dirt floor in their two room house), one a child of 11 the other a child of 9... both were single family homes. and out of all 20 of those children, NONE of them are on welfare. They all have good jobs, all made something of themselves. And they came from some of the most dysfunctional families out there.
It busts my gut how people just say CAN'T all the time. Anything is possible. and my family and myself are living proof of that. There
is equal opportunity. The only restrictions you have are the ones you make for yourself.
If people are bitching and making excuses, they cant possibly be doing anything constructive. self pity takes up too much energy for that to happen.