Do you think you found your true love? Your soulmate? Your twinflame?
Did you find your true love?
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yeah, she left me before we met (she was due to leave two months after we met, before we met - it was an incredible two months, frickin amazing I'd say) and I found another, they're both very different but well, I feel lucky in that the only person I've married seems to be the only person I honestly think I could have a lifetime relationship with. The first true love had a different calling and broke my heart to take it. My second mended it and well, she's the perfect wife for me. It's awesome.
For me, I realized what true love was when, and this is SO gay but I swear, when she left me it LITERALLY felt like my heart was being ripped out of my body. I don't ever cry really cuz I'm rarely sad about anything but that day I cried from my depths for hours, I'm pretty sure it was a couple of days. it was the most miserable i've ever been i think, but it was kind of good too in an introspective expansion kind of way. took me a few years to get over it. (mostly cuz she was to come back from in three years and I couldn't give up until I knew for sure, met my wife about eight months after she came back and wouldn't even talk to me. All I wanted was to be released and she couldn't find the strength, she just avoided it). I'm still astonished when i reflect on how powerful it was. wow.
sorry if that was random, but altogether I've connected with three women on a fundamental level (in a relationshippy kind of mate kind of way). I'm not sure what that means about "soulmates". can there be more than one? maybe I've just got a really good looking soul? LOL
For me, I realized what true love was when, and this is SO gay but I swear, when she left me it LITERALLY felt like my heart was being ripped out of my body. I don't ever cry really cuz I'm rarely sad about anything but that day I cried from my depths for hours, I'm pretty sure it was a couple of days. it was the most miserable i've ever been i think, but it was kind of good too in an introspective expansion kind of way. took me a few years to get over it. (mostly cuz she was to come back from in three years and I couldn't give up until I knew for sure, met my wife about eight months after she came back and wouldn't even talk to me. All I wanted was to be released and she couldn't find the strength, she just avoided it). I'm still astonished when i reflect on how powerful it was. wow.
sorry if that was random, but altogether I've connected with three women on a fundamental level (in a relationshippy kind of mate kind of way). I'm not sure what that means about "soulmates". can there be more than one? maybe I've just got a really good looking soul? LOL
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I used to think I knew what those words meant, and that I'd know it when I found them. However, I don't believe I know what those words mean anymore... nor do I believe they mean anything. I don't believe the universe's souls are neatly divided into nice little pairs. They aren't.
In as little as a hundred years, the concept of one solidary and eternal partner for love and procreation will start to seem very "traditional," and old-fashioned.
CounslerCoffee
Registered Senior Member
I once had a love.
But you know that old saying, if you love something kill it, and if it doesnt come back to you then it never loved you. So I had to beat her to death with a shovel and then bury her in the backyard, she hasnt come back yet.
But you know that old saying, if you love something kill it, and if it doesnt come back to you then it never loved you. So I had to beat her to death with a shovel and then bury her in the backyard, she hasnt come back yet.yep
soulmate, true love, well i guess i found mine... Was actually kinda like a movie/fairytale, it was pure chance that we met, and we both feel "warm and fuzzy" around each other... Twas when you met, you know that you could spend the rest of your life with her... Even though i broke several key elements of the guy code of conduct by doing this i wouldnt have it any other way
soulmate, true love, well i guess i found mine... Was actually kinda like a movie/fairytale, it was pure chance that we met, and we both feel "warm and fuzzy" around each other... Twas when you met, you know that you could spend the rest of your life with her... Even though i broke several key elements of the guy code of conduct by doing this i wouldnt have it any other way
Bah, humbug.
Love schmuve. Screw love, we're all damned anyway. Why bother looking for something "bright" and "pure" when you're going to die alone in the end? 2 dead bodies don't make 2 happy spirits.
Soulmate schmolemate. We are all alone in our minds. Every person is an island. One without coconut radios or monkey manservants. *grimaces*
On the other hand, Christmas is fun!
Love schmuve. Screw love, we're all damned anyway. Why bother looking for something "bright" and "pure" when you're going to die alone in the end? 2 dead bodies don't make 2 happy spirits.
Soulmate schmolemate. We are all alone in our minds. Every person is an island. One without coconut radios or monkey manservants. *grimaces*
On the other hand, Christmas is fun!
Nice
ripleofdeath
Registered Senior Member
heyya all
one of my fav topics...
but let me preach for a second to re-afirm my ego centric self absollusion of all who seek greed,
for they in thier haste kill love to profit from its gushing essence like blood from the cup of capitalism.
it taints all who try to control it
it illudes all who seek to label it
it repels all those who would damage it
you know not life
you know not sex
you know not
until you know love
i pitty the masses!
most people will never know what love is!
it must be sort like a hidden gem that a friend has lost and asked you to help them find it.
love
friendship
lust
sex
touch
its all a process in some form!
peace light truth love
the path set out to achive the above.
groove on all
one of my fav topics...
but let me preach for a second to re-afirm my ego centric self absollusion of all who seek greed,
for they in thier haste kill love to profit from its gushing essence like blood from the cup of capitalism.
it taints all who try to control it
it illudes all who seek to label it
it repels all those who would damage it
you know not life
you know not sex
you know not
until you know love
i pitty the masses!
most people will never know what love is!
it must be sort like a hidden gem that a friend has lost and asked you to help them find it.
love
friendship
lust
sex
touch
its all a process in some form!
peace light truth love
the path set out to achive the above.
groove on all