Can anyone explain to me why this discussion of degrees of misogyny is so far up the rabbit hole that we're checking in for the digression about men who avoid women?
Seriously, what does this small bloc of ostensibly heterosexual men who allegedly avoid women for hatred, have to do with anything? The only time they have any functional relationship to a discussion like this is if they happen to refuse to hire women in order to accommodate their hatred. And how many of those are we
really talking about?
Because they
put their studies↑ ahead of social interaction? That's not necessarily a question of misogyny.
Because
men are the real victims↑, here? In what way is that helpful to the discussion? At all?
But in the end, the problem here is that this is all a digression based on fake pedantry trying to redefine the word "misogyny". I
get why someone might wish to drive a stake through that kind of trolling. What I
don't get is why any right-minded, ostensibly well-intended individual would lend a hand to that kind of trolling.
And this is the thing about bigots and bigotry:
There is always another one waiting in the wings. Seriously, didn't we just stall out of a cycle in which someone was trying to redefine misogyny? Naturally, the first thing we need is another go.
To the one it's expected; this is how bigots do it. Have you tried the
rape culture thread↗, in which we are apparently obliged to occasionally restart the discussion in order to accommodate an insupportable straw man about how men are the real victims?
No, seriously; think of the progression.
(1) Ask a question.
(2) Dismiss responses in order to
postulate a cookie-cutter straw man↗; that generally doesn't work.
(3) Fear not; someone else will ignore all the subsequent discussion, and
try the straw man again↗, as if it is somehow new; and no, that generally doesn't work out very well, either.
(4) Still, though, fear not; after a while,
someone else will ignore the entire discussion in order to
try the straw man yet again↗, as if it is somehow new, and nobody knows why anyone expects it to work out any better this time.
The repetition never really evolves significantly because it is not supposed to; the point is to reset the discussion and have another go at it.
We've already seen, in this thread, an
attempt to redefine misogyny↑ that even went so far as to propose that a woman
doesn't have the right↑ to leave the house without being sexually harassed; the best we can interpret of that whole argument is that apparently it isn't misogyny if one doesn't actively hate women but, instead, is just too lazy to bother regarding women with basic human respect.
And now as part of the
second redefinition push↑, we're down to
"Misogyny means one does not like women, and, thus, one is expected to prefer the company of men."
That was nearly two weeks ago, and this is about some
assertion of totalitarianism↑ that starts with the human rights of women. That desperate advocacy is now down to,
"Misogyny means one does not like women, and, thus, one is expected to prefer the company of men."
I
get why this one needs to be tacked to the wall. What I
don't understand is anyone else blithely playing along, which in the end only reiterates that any discussion occurring at the intersection of women and human rights is best served by talking about
something else, preferably
men.
And
that is what disappoints me. Trolls will as trolls do, but what about anybody else?
Look at them all line up. The one benefit societies get from this sick manner of discourse is the record of just how easy and common misogyny is. Then again, therein lies the problem; there is a reason some would aim to proscribe sloth from misogyny―they don't
hate women, see, but just think it's unfair that anyone should have to think about human rights in any context pertaining to women other than #WhatAboutTheMen.