god's will cannot be denied - if one is destined to die all the paramedics in the world cannot increase life by a second and if one is destined to live, one can crawl out of the most certain death experiences
its not so much about defying god's will - it seem syou are more in line with addresing the variety of options that a variety of theists use to deal with their problems - sure, a pure devotee would see everything as god's will, but since over 99% of persons who identify themselves as theists are not practicing on such a pure platform, it woul dbe unnatural for them to pretend that they are (although sime foolish theists have no reservations about such pretensions ....)
Can God's will be denied or thwarted?
I would say yes it can. For if I say no, then whatever "is" or "exists" is God's will. And all of the evil that exists in this world is God's will. Everytime an innocent woman gets raped and murdered. That was God's will?
Am I supposed to praise Him for this?