Orthogonal
Your last post explained a lot and my empathy circuits have cooled (God being you smarts! ) And it looks like we all get better in the end. The interesting thing is how we perceive what better is !
I was counselling a boy in work a couple of months ago who for a four year period was sexually abused by an uncle. This happened when he was very young and he had a problem about going into any therapy. His reason ? He enjoyed it. Not in a 'I can't wait to go back and get me some more' Kind of way just, listening to him explain it so rationally it opened my eyes a little in the sense that he was having pleasure centres in his body stimulated. He was never forced or threatened and saw it as a thing everybody did. so he didn't really see the need to do as his partner and doctor were telling him and seek help.
This is not everybodies story, tho in a similar vein, many men who were raped as adults have a harder time coming to terms with their own erection and/or orgasm rather than the rape itself.
More power to ya mate and if we think you could possibly be a little gaga sometimes you just keep that knowing smile going.
Live long and prosper
Bill
Your last post explained a lot and my empathy circuits have cooled (God being you smarts! ) And it looks like we all get better in the end. The interesting thing is how we perceive what better is !
I was counselling a boy in work a couple of months ago who for a four year period was sexually abused by an uncle. This happened when he was very young and he had a problem about going into any therapy. His reason ? He enjoyed it. Not in a 'I can't wait to go back and get me some more' Kind of way just, listening to him explain it so rationally it opened my eyes a little in the sense that he was having pleasure centres in his body stimulated. He was never forced or threatened and saw it as a thing everybody did. so he didn't really see the need to do as his partner and doctor were telling him and seek help.
This is not everybodies story, tho in a similar vein, many men who were raped as adults have a harder time coming to terms with their own erection and/or orgasm rather than the rape itself.
More power to ya mate and if we think you could possibly be a little gaga sometimes you just keep that knowing smile going.
Live long and prosper
Bill