Ophiolite said:
Oops. Ophiolite retreats in embarassment. Didn't mean to give offence Geistkeissel. Unwarranted assumption based in part upon your name. I see that you have the same difficulty in writing that I have in speech. For me the benefits of writing is that one can edit. Once the words have left the lips however, that is that. So one indulges in post speech editing, i.e. more words, and on it spins into confusion and oblivion.
Opiolite, mon cher, no embarrassment earned or warranted. If I had felt more than the few dozen or so tears that squezzed painfully from my eyes and shuddering body you would have received a secret missive, full of spite and rancor - pages and pages of advice..
"The moving finger writes and having writ does not move on , for with all your piety and wit ye may lure it back to cancel half a line."
The speech thing is not that difficlt to tame, your mind is just going so fast the words dump out without filter. "You just don't reaize how fucking smart you are and the words spew out like water from a fire hose. You just talk too much; take the smallest split second and listen to yourself before you let go." This I told a shocked, but not negatively insulted woman once upon a long time ago. Overall she seemed grateful. I thought we ended up as 'bonded.' Obla dee bal dah.
Have you ever considered that you really don't know specifically what the next word or words are going to be in nonrehearsed converstaion? I mean, even practiced as dramatic speech, speaking or writing, the words are suspended in quietude,real and working only when the throat is vibrating.
With this is the reflected corrollary: you do anticipate something like the quietude above when listening, or reading; is it not natural and easy to stay ahead of the speaker a few words, in general, knowing but not hearing?. Think about it.
BTW I lived in Germany for three years as a child 9 - 13. No vertlich, really, I was once a child. Can you dig it?
Thanks Big O. I think we are near the same age.
Geiskiesel