like i said, maybe, but he doesn't do it indiscriminately, he tells you where the roads lead and give you the wheel.
Alright - I'll skip the short comments regarding the biblical quotes, (which are only going to serve as arguments against christians, which you apparently are not).
Here's a question though based upon your statement above. You see, I told my daughter not to stick her fingers in the plug socket. I advised her of the outcome and the dangers and so on. She, being inquisitive, stuck her fingers in there anyway.
As an "all-loving" father - that happens to have been fortunate enough to know in advance - I turned the electricity off just before she did it.
Hopefully you see the point.
Let me try it another way: I had a friend that wanted to skydive. I told him his parachute wasn't going to open but he didn't believe me. He jumped and - lo and behold - his parachute didn't open. Now, I had the ability to save him from going *squish* but didn't bother.
You need to recognise that not believing or not paying attention does not mean someone
wants to suffer. Any "all-loving" parent would prevent the suffering if they could, (even if it's just a simple scenario like getting an injection), on the basis that the suffering is unwanted.
No, not-suffering does not make the world a worse place to be in. It actually makes it heaven. At the very least, I can assure you that most parents would do it if they could, (this negates some of those parents that do all sorts to their own kids. We have several names for them).
To use your analogy: I gave my daughter the wheel. Doesn't whatsoever mean I don't grab hold of it when she's about to drive into a river.