Bow shocks from the Sun are formed by massive amounts of particles behaving in a coherent manner, like a plasma such as the solar wind, and interacting with electromagnetic fields produced by planets, other stars or the interstellar medium. This is a combination of fluid mechanics and electromagnetism on observed things like the solar wind. There's no evidence for the aether and there's no evidence for your claims about the aether. You implicitly admit it when you say "I don't see why they can't be scaled down". That isn't evidence, that's an argument from ignorance, ie "I can't see why it is false so it's justifiable". You then go on the mention observational evidence. Yes, it's allowed here and thus a discussion on something like the heliopause would be fine (though perhaps more appropriate for the cosmology forum). A discussion on a hypothetical bow shock in an unobserved medium based on absolutely nothing other than "You can't disprove it" isn't science.
As I said, you have a thread, an entire subforum, for your unjustified, arm waving, derivation-less, ignorant nonsense. I suggest you keep your musings about anything even slightly aether related there. A reply to this post is unnecessary, let the thread get back to topic.