Farsight:
Your own clock never stops.
Time dilation is always something that happens to you from the perspective of some other guy. You never see your own clock slowing at all. Not ever.
Got what? You'll need to be specific.
On the basics of time dilations, I'm sure that all three of them were on the same page, which is different from what you're saying.
You're mixing frames. You're mixing somebody else's coordinate time with proper time. That's your fundamental error here.
You're actually answering the question "Has Farsight, sitting at a safe distance from the hole, seen James's clock tick yet?" Answer: no. But that's a different question from "Has James seen his clock tick yet?" Getting a little more complicated, what you're really asking and answering here is: "Has Farsight, sitting at a safe distance, seen James see his clock tick yet?", which is really the first question and not the second one.
General relativity says he does.
Clearly not.
Time dilation is always zero for a clock at rest relative to the observer. That is, the clock at rest always keeps ticking at the normal rate as seen by that observer, no matter what distance observers may see.
Proper time is merely some regular cyclic local motion "clocked up" on your clock. When your clock stops, that's the end of your proper time. You don't see your clock ticking normally because you're "stopped" too. You don't see anything. Ever.
Your own clock never stops.
Time dilation is always something that happens to you from the perspective of some other guy. You never see your own clock slowing at all. Not ever.
I get it. Einstein got it. Wheeler didn't. Nor did Kruskal.
Got what? You'll need to be specific.
On the basics of time dilations, I'm sure that all three of them were on the same page, which is different from what you're saying.
If you are subject to infinite time dilation, your clock is stopped and you are stopped, you don't see it ticking normally, you don't see anything, ever.
You're mixing frames. You're mixing somebody else's coordinate time with proper time. That's your fundamental error here.
No. We'll all wait a billion years. Has James seen his clock tick yet? No. Let's wait another billion years. Has James seen his clock tick yet? No. The answer is always no.
You're actually answering the question "Has Farsight, sitting at a safe distance from the hole, seen James's clock tick yet?" Answer: no. But that's a different question from "Has James seen his clock tick yet?" Getting a little more complicated, what you're really asking and answering here is: "Has Farsight, sitting at a safe distance, seen James see his clock tick yet?", which is really the first question and not the second one.
He doesn't see himself fall through the event horizon either. Ever.
General relativity says he does.
Eight years. And I'm the one who does understand it.
Clearly not.
The clock is "at rest" relative to the observer carrying it. But when gravitational time dilation goes infinite, the clock is stopped...
Time dilation is always zero for a clock at rest relative to the observer. That is, the clock at rest always keeps ticking at the normal rate as seen by that observer, no matter what distance observers may see.